He loves me, he loves me not

i don#039;t know if i#039;m just being oblivious to the whole situation i#039;m having w/a guy friend or if i#039;m just trying to make sense of the whole situation. see, i wish things could be a little more clear and that he could just be straight...

forward abt the way he feels abt me. he says and does things that might suggest that he does like me back (i like him, can#039;t get my mind off him). for instance: he calls every night, asks me to go out w/him on my 1 hr breaks fr. work, we have long talks (in person/on the phone), he wants to introduce me to his relatives, he#039;s asked quot;have u ever been in luv b4?quot;, talks abt the number of children he wants to have, asks me out for dinner and movies. he#039;s even told me abt this girl he liked b4 (who had the same name as me) and abt the guy she ended up marrying (who had the same name as him) -- his exact words were, quot;Isn#039;t that a coincidence?quot; (i have a rare first name) Despite all of the things i have mentioned above, he has not made any #039;moves#039; nor has he been straightforward w/me. He#039;s talked abt his girlfriends in the past and abt the crush he had on that girl, but some ppl i know think he#039;s gay. Of course, i#039;ve observed his actions, and some of his movements do suggest that he could be gay, but other actions suggest that he#039;s not. For instance, he likes action movies, gets really horny when we#039;re watching love scenes, and has made comments abt #039;sexy#039; girls on movies/tv. but he also has a lot of friends who are girls (which could suggest that he is gay or just has a feminine touch to him). my mom, dad amp; brother even think something#039;s going on b/w us. My questions 4 u r: Do u think he likes me (from what i#039;ve said)?; or Do u think he#039;s gay and isn#039;t making any moves b/c he is?; and How should i approach the whole situation? I#039;d truly, truly appreciate any advice that u could give me as i don#039;t know who i can turn to right now.

~Desparate for advice

Your questions are:
quot;Do u think he likes me (from what i#039;ve said)?quot;
He #039;sounds#039; like he likes you yes. Love, no. Like, yes.

quot;or Do u think he#039;s gay and isn#039;t making any moves b/c he is?quot;
I think just because he isn#039;t making moves on you does not mean he is gay and that#039;s an egotistical, simplistic deduction. Perhaps, he is just not attracted to you.

quot;and How should i approach the whole situation?quot;
How about the upfront and honest way? Like asking him EXACTLY how does he feel about you? If it friendship or more? Tell him to be honest because you#039;d rather know now than down the line.

I think that might clear it up rather neatly. Let us know what happens.

Blessings and good luck