He left me for someone else

What does it mean when your boyfriend for so long and has so many feelings, leaves you for a girl with a baby? I mean we shared everything together, I mean whatever this girl gives him, I gave him. I don't understand how a guy would leave his girlfriend for a girl with a baby. I mean I am missing out on something, is it better to be with a girl like her?

he is a jerk you have to get over it he is the one that hurt you so it will be hard but try to get over ok you seem like a nice person so if he would leave you then he's not worth crying for

It means he has issues, there is nothing wrong with you at all. Unfortunetly like sucks! you can give a guy everything you have and be the best girlfriend but for some a$$holes it still isnt enough. Maybe he got bored and felt like he was in a rut, maybe he is just plain selfish and risked everything you had on running after some chick, or maybe he actually does feel for her. There are a million questions but what you need to realise is thats it is for the best that this happened now to show you exactly how he is, how much worse would it be for you if you actually married him, had kids maybe and then he left for some other chick. So be thankful you have no ties to him, you need to stay away from him and focus on yourself and sooner or later you will find someone who will treat you so much better than he ever did.

I've been through the same thing over, and over again. the first thing you need to realize (which took me awhile to figure out) is that its NOT you. he'll probably get bored of her also and move on to new meat. men tend to get bored and move around like that often. He'll grow up one day and look for someone permenant. and if thats what you want, then those are the kind of guys you should be looking for.