What if my boyfriend and best friend hate each other?

ok well im absolutly in love with my boyfriend lets call him robert and im also in love with my best friend lets call her laura, and they both love me but the problem is they hate each other and robert don tlike to hang with me if im with her and vise...

versa and im afriad that theyre gona force me to choose between him or her and I just cant do it because I love em both and cant live without either of em and im just regretting 2morrow because their most likely going to talk to me about this and I dont know what to do. any help?

tell them if they really cared for you then they better just shutup and get over it. if they make you choose then they're just really immature.

Its a horrible situation when your boyfriend and best friend dont get along. But at the end of the day, its not about choosing. They should both love you enough to realise you love them both, and should not make you chose anyone.

So if they bring this up, you can simply say, shows how much I actually mean in all this, you are both to selfish to realise I love you both. Now you are going to have to try and get along for my sake or none of our relationships are going to work if you ask this of me. Hang out with her, and make time for him, as long as they both get a piece of you, they shouldnt complain.

honestly you need to talk to both of them.. you need tell them your feelings.. if they really love you they'll control there hate towards eachother...

that sucks. I dont mean to be on the negative side, but if they do make you choose, choose the one who wont leave you. sure, boyfriends dont last, but sometimes best friends dont iether, so if you are put in that Horiible situation, choose the one who will be there for you.

oh and also, the truer friend doesnt want to see you hurt, so they give you up to the other person. but I really hope things work out. please hold a meeting and make them talk!! but I must confess. I am the nicest person in the world, but sometimes people dont like you, even if they dont even know you, trust me I know, I've had two people this yr, be Extremly rude to me and they dont even know me. but hopefully things will work out, I wish you the best of luck!!! 3

well you tell them both, that if they want to be with you they have to learn to deal with eachother, but whatever you do, do not let your boyfriend come first. friends should always be first. beacuse when you brake up you wont have a friend iether. and trust me people I know have have done that and it does not end well. Bros before Hoes.