He cheated, she took him back!

My Friends Boyfriend started Flirting With Other Girls And Then She Caught Him Kissing One Of The Girls And She Took Him Back.
was She Smart For Taking Him Back ??(This Is Not The First Time He's Cheated on Her)

Not at all, but if she's stupid enough to take him back that's her problem.

no because once he dos it he will do it again and plus he will know that she will forgive him if he cheats again.

I think you should have a talk with her and tell her that it is unacceptable to cheat at all. If he has cheated on her more than once she is definately better off without him.

I Try talking to her but she doesnt listen she tells me he made a mistake and everyone makes mistakes and that he'll change.

kissing is kinda cheating in my opinion but taking him back wasn't a mistake. it really depends on the situation.
My girlfriend walked into a bathroom where I was making out with a girl and it sucked super bad, because I was so drunk and she pulled me in there so fast I hardly knew what hit me. I was about to put my foot down when the door opened. all this happened in a two minute time frame so yea it really depends on the situation. But if he's cheating on her all the time well then I'd say they just arent cut out for each other, and she'll figure that out on her own.

he changed then did it again... he obviously didnt change then lol
she refuses to listen to you... then its out of your control. you did all that you can. just be a friend and be there for here when he smashes her heart -- again.

There's a 'pattern' here - lust for others, not Love for her !!

Shes always getting her heart broken and I cant stand it he even tried to hit on me.
instead I hit him!
hes so rude and she doesnt care

im glad you hit him!

I really just dont think there is anything more you can do for her. and it sucks when someone hurts a close friend and they keep going back to him... its happened to me.

wish I could help more.

Its okay
thanks for the advice its helped a lot I hope she see's this and see's what an idiot she is. Im glad I hit him to he reminds me of a retarded dog!

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

look...your friend is trying to ignore the real problems here. She's trying to ignore the fact that her guy will continue to cheat one her. and she's ignoring the fact that she does not have a spine and she needs to leave this guy. He's not good news for her.

Tel her how you feel, present the facts to her face...and if all else fails, have a intervention...get your pals together and explain to her you're all very concerned about her behavior. and his. good luck sweetie.

Thanks all of you have helped a lot I think the intervention is a good idea! :D thxs!!

She has low self-esteem, self-respect, common sense, etc.