How can we stop him from going soft from wearing a condom?

Asked by fau 2 months ago, 4 answers.

soo my boyfriend and I have had sex maybe 10 times.
and we both really get into it, but the problem is is after about twenty minutes he goes soft, and as soon as we take the condom off it pops back up.
we think that it is just the condom( I took his...

virginity so he is not used to them yet) but we are not sure.
every time he goes soft we take the condom off and I have to finish him byut giving him head, or jacking him off.
he get really angry and punches the walls and so on, and we don't knwo what to do anymore.
personally I don't care about it, but he really gets upset over it.
is there anything I can do to help with this??
helppp.

Answered by thehelper on Aug 23, 2009, 06:51PM
401 answers

you could buy birth control

Answered by fau on Aug 23, 2009, 07:28PM

ok so the problem seems to be that before sex and before putting it on he gets turned on but after 20 min of sex he gets used to the feeling and the spark goes away, I recommend going at a position for about 10 min then trying a new 1 or slowing down and switching whoevers on top, you just need to keep him interested. im not saying he isnt, but all I think you need to do is keep giving him twists and turns to keep him excited (positions) and litteraly lol

Answered by question01 on Aug 23, 2009, 07:56PM
234 answers

This maybe stupid but have you check if the condom isn't on too tight that might cut the circulation after twenty minutes.

I was dancing =D Answered by skanker_chick on Aug 29, 2009, 11:34AM
250 answers

we switch positions about every 10 minutes, and we always trade whose on top, and as for the condom, we buy trojan ecstasy, which fits him pretty well.

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