He's so jealous what should i do

I#039;ve been with my fiance for over 3 years now and I love him very much. For a while we were having a lot of fights but we have worked through that. Now there is just one thing that has been bothering me. He gets so jealous of any other guy that I...

talk to. and all of my male friends I have met through him anyway, so they are all his friends but he is still jealous of them. I have told him several times that I would never do anything, I am very attractive, it#039;s not like I don#039;t have the chance. It just upsets me because all of my friends are guys and I cant even go see a movie with out him getting all wierd about it. he says things suggesting that I like these other guys better and that im going to fool around with them. I cant even ride in the car with another guy with out him getting freaked out. And he is like this with all guys not just one or two but all male friends, even my boss#039;s and coworkers. What can I do because I feel this is tearing us apart.

Odds are that he is just insecure about himself. If he is really jealous of his own friends, then he must feel that they have something that he doesn#039;t. In most cases, you can solve this by trying to raise his confidence himself, maybe by complimenting him a lot, and making sure that he really knows how much you love him. However, if the problem isn#039;t his self-esteem, then he obviously does not believe you when you tell him that you wouldn#039;t cheat on him. He is essentially calling you a liar. In this case I#039;d confront him with this, and bring this distrust to light. Then, together, you can work through it, hopefully.

How does he display his jealousy? And, is it truly just these incidents that make him flare up? Beware. His lack of self-esteem can rapidly eat away at yours, while you feel guilty for being the person you are. Run, quickly, and develop a life of your own, making friends of your own, guy or girl. Relationships must be weighed in light of what they cost...you may love him, but how is he loving you by making you feel less for having friends?

tell him tht if yall dont have trust yall dont have nothin he needs to stop bein so insecure and trust you more

It is tearing you apart. If he cant handle being with you, he has to go. Do you know if he has he been jealous in other realtionships (before you?). A little jealously can be flattering. His intensity concerns me because often jealously turns to control (started to already) and control is abuse, and abuse can grow on MANY different levels. Be very careful moving forward. If things dont change, I would get out and find a man that can trust you.