He's driving me nutz!!

My boyfriend and I have been going out for only 2 months, and he's talking about all of this sex crap. I've told him that I'm not haveing sex until I'm married. I have a good reason, I don't want AIDS and all this crap, and I don't want a kid this young, and I also want it to be something really special. He's 2 years older than me, and he just, I donno, wants me to do all this stuff. I don't know what to do!! He's always tellin me he gets boners and crap, and he's always trying to turn me on, I don't really mind, but I don't think he respects that I want to wait. I'm only 14!!!He's also wantin me to do stuff, like finger myself and crap like that on the phone, it really bugs me. Evry1 told me he was perverted and crap, but I was like I don't care, hich I don't, I just wish he would respect me!!!He sais he didn't get in the relationship "just" because of the sex!!!That upset me!!!what do I do?!?!?

well to me he sounds like he is only interested in one thing!if he cant respect your decision then your better off with out him!he sounds childish and to me he needs to get a grip!if your not ready then dont let him pressure you into sumthng you dont want to do!do it for love!

I think what you should do is tell him that your ready for that and if he wants you to still do that.Then it is time for to let him go if he doesn't respect u.So that me ask him if he respect you and if he says yes and still keeps asking you to do thing like that cut him loose.

WAKE UP! NOt that he is a perv or anything but the simple fact is that you are way too young to have to deal with this kind of problem. Take it from someone who decided to start having sex at age 14, I'm seveteen now and expecting baby number 3! Don't do it, tell you horny little boyfriend to go mas*urba*e to porn if he's got to have it. If he wants agil that wil sleep with at that age then go find the hoochie. Swettie you have very good morals and if he can't accept and respect that kick him to the curb. I'm sure that your first time will be much more specil and memorable on your weddind night wit you husband.Dom't end up making a HUGE mistake!

WAKE UP! NOt that he is a perv or anything but the simple fact is that you are way too young to have to deal with this kind of problem. Take it from someone who decided to start having sex at age 14, I'm seveteen now and expecting baby number 3! Don't do it, tell you horny little boyfriend to go mas*urba*e to porn if he's got to have it. If he wants agil that wil sleep with at that age then go find the hoochie. Swettie you have very good morals and if he can't accept and respect that kick him to the curb. I'm sure that your first time will be much more specil and memorable on your weddind night wit you husband.Dom't end up making a HUGE mistake!

WAKE UP! NOt that he is a perv or anything but the simple fact is that you are way too young to have to deal with this kind of problem. Take it from someone who decided to start having sex at age 14, I'm seveteen now and expecting baby number 3! Don't do it, tell you horny little boyfriend to go mas*urba*e to porn if he's got to have it. If he wants agil that wil sleep with at that age then go find the hoochie. Swettie you have very good morals and if he can't accept and respect that kick him to the curb. I'm sure that your first time will be much more specil and memorable on your weddind night wit you husband.Dom't end up making a HUGE mistake!

WAKE UP! NOt that he is a perv or anything but the simple fact is that you are way too young to have to deal with this kind of problem. Take it from someone who decided to start having sex at age 14, I'm seveteen now and expecting baby number 3! Don't do it, tell you horny little boyfriend to go mas*urba*e to porn if he's got to have it. If he wants agil that wil sleep with at that age then go find the hoochie. Swettie you have very good morals and if he can't accept and respect that kick him to the curb. I'm sure that your first time will be much more specil and memorable on your weddind night wit you husband.Dom't end up making a HUGE mistake!

WAKE UP! NOt that he is a perv or anything but the simple fact is that you are way too young to have to deal with this kind of problem. Take it from someone who decided to start having sex at age 14, I'm seveteen now and expecting baby number 3! Don't do it, tell you horny little boyfriend to go mas*urba*e to porn if he's got to have it. If he wants agil that wil sleep with at that age then go find the hoochie. Swettie you have very good morals and if he can't accept and respect that kick him to the curb. I'm sure that your first time will be much more specil and memorable on your weddind night wit you husband.Dom't end up making a HUGE mistake!

WAKE UP! NOt that he is a perv or anything but the simple fact is that you are way too young to have to deal with this kind of problem. Take it from someone who decided to start having sex at age 14, I'm seveteen now and expecting baby number 3! Don't do it, tell you horny little boyfriend to go mas*urba*e to porn if he's got to have it. If he wants agil that wil sleep with at that age then go find the hoochie. Swettie you have very good morals and if he can't accept and respect that kick him to the curb. I'm sure that your first time will be much more specil and memorable on your weddind night wit you husband.Dom't end up making a HUGE mistake!

you are right to be concern and upset he has no bisness teling you to have sex with him is your body and your choice if he does'nt under stand that he could go and f**k his self and you can move on to a better guy who will respect you if you need any more advice email me at Fun mail me

I would have to agree with what everybody else said but maybe with a twist. I don't think it is such a bad idea having sex at an early age BUT you personally are not ready for sex so he needs to understand that and respect that. Personally I think that if he were to get sex from you he would drop you like a hot potatoe cause it is pretty clear he dont care about you just about what you can do for him I would tell him to either respect your desision or move on and find a guy that will respect how you feel and wait until you are ready, and if that means that you are not ready until you are married then that is exactly what it means

ALL HE WANTS IS S-E-X! ! !
If he doesn't respect you now he never will!
get out while you can sweetheart, that is what your heart is truly trying to tell you, you just don't know it!
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he SOUNDS like a total PERVERT! HE IS JUST GOING TO USE YOU!
= that means you will just end up getting hurt. If it really upsets you tell him how you feel and tell him to stop. Do this nicely.
--> if he still even hints at it, dump him right away, before you have SECOND THOUGHS! if you dont dump him right away you are going to eventually cave in, that is not good because you will REGRET IT!!!!!
SAVE YOURSELF NOW!
* if he doesn't then it should be alright.
it sounds likes this guy is in for it for the sex. typical horny guy. Listen to your friends
***SAVE YOURSELF, BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!! ITS NOT WORTH YOUR WORRY SWEETIE!

girl..
break up aiite
a guy like that wont get you anywhere =]
teenage years..theres no real love all guys want is pretty much s e x
so save urself from tears & move on.. (:
&& plus if he reelie liked yu he wud respect you

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I think the perfect solution would be to introduce this kid to your dad and tell your dad what he's been up to. You won't have to worry about it anymore. )

You're only 14. You're being very smart. This kid is 16 and all he's going to be doing is thinking about sex. He doesn't love you, so I wouldn't worry about it. Dump him. I know that at your age its a status symbol to have a boyfriend, but this fool may wind up talking you into doing something you don't want to, or worse...forcing you. I had 'boyfriends' like that in school when I was 14 and 15, too. I got the hell away. I'm glad I did. This one dude start squeezing my butt the second I said that 'yes' I would go with him. Later on he tried to play with my boobs. Guys that age are obsessed with sex and women's bodies and some of them can't control themselves. If he ever touches you like that and you don't want him to, tell him to stop. If he doesn't, kick him in the nads and leave. He won't bother you again...hopefully.