Having some trouble c*mming..

I am 14 with a 16 year old girlfriend. How come when my girlfriend is giving me this amazing handjob or blowjob, it takes a while for me to c*m or I cant c*m even tho I am popping big time and am way turned on? I have came before with her. She was jacking me off when we were standing up and I have c*m a couple times to that. But why is it when comes to layin on the couch and exposing it, it becomes hard to c*m or I cant? Is it cause im to worried about getting caught? Help me out here, I need some tips and some advice!

For one you're awefully young to be doing that stuff and the age of concent is 16 lol but anyways... If you're too worried about getting caught you're not completley relaxed. If you're not entirley relaxed your mind is not focused on what's happening, you could also be self concious about your pen*s being whipped out for all to see. I don't know 100% honestly but I hope that helps!

First of all, nice job on landing the older woman. I wish I had been so lucky at your age.

There's a few things going on here. The major issue, as gizmo said, is your mind being distracted and stressed. A brain thinking too hard about what's going on is very quick to override the body's enjoyment of it. If you're uncomfortable doing things on the couch, pay attention to what your brain is saying and go somewhere more private. The more relaxed you are, the smoother things will go.

Second, there is a common misconception about hjs and bjs that both men and women share, and that is that they're always going to result in org**m 100% of the time. Sometimes it's just not going to happen, and neither you nor she should feel bad or embarrassed by that fact. Sometimes you aren't going to be able to get her off, sometimes she's won't be able to get you off. That's life. Think of it, instead, about being about the journey, not the destination. If you sit back and enjoy the 'AMAZING' handjob and not worry so much about getting to the O, life is going to be just fine. Be thankful you're getting any action at all at your age.

thanks man. and I know what your saying. the ora**m part isnt a problem at all. we both give it to eachother all the time. its just the whole c*mming thing. I feel so embarrassed because she sits there doin all she can and for a long while and I get so close, then it just goes back down and I feel so bad because I feel like I have disappointed her. she just starts to get tired and I want it to c*m faster so we still have time for other things and she isn't tired and she is satisfied. I am all about making my woman happy.

we cant always get off somewhere private without my dad 'patrolling' the house. I am definetly not affraid of whipping it out, because I have no problem exposeing myself to her. I just dont know why it doesnt happen. im so comfortable with her and the situation. I just feel like I let her down sometimes and that sorta upsets me. so my confidence about the next time kinda lowers a little bit. she tells me she isnt disappointed and I shouldnt be mad because she understands.

Think with one head, not the other...