Having sex while he has a g/f

I am having sex with this guy and he has a girlfriend! Im not gunna lie I like him a lot and I guess it didnt really stop me from likeing him! I kinda of feel like a whore tho! He tells me that he is gunna break up with her but they bad thing is they...

have been dating for 3 YEARS holy shit right lol? he has cheated on her many times before this! Im just kinda of scared to get close to him but he is a the biggest dick head ever but some how I like that in guys what should I do?

ok not that smedheaders advice wasnt good .....and it was......he has a knack for that.........
heres mine
this guy is a cheater.....and thats not gonna change...i guess if you keep this as just what it is...ull be ok...but dont get too involved...remember thats sex is just that sex dont confuse it with any deeper feelings on his part ok....you might get hurt that way.dont feel like a whore although helpin sum1 cheat isint the greatest thing or sumthing to brag about....its not all that bad and trust me ppl have done worse.if you have bad feelings about this then just quit it.and hes right you are very beautiful...im shure lots of guys are after you what makes this1 so special?
well think about it
always ur girl
-v-

Get out while you still can. Girls have an odd attraction to dicks and I don't blame you for it because i think approx 98.99% of the chicks i know like guys who are jerks... and you just will continue to get sucked in like a magnet, he will do something really messed up that will hurt you and you'll will let it go... trust me on this this guy is no good for you... there is lots of nice guys out there to have sex with and you wont get used when you do it! Cheaters are bad... male cheaters are worse.

Jason

Do not worry too much, a certain % of the population like f.cking around a little when young. That is the same human as the rigid monogamy.

I am in the same kind of situation, but I've been friends with benefits with this guy for almost 7 years, and his little sister told me a week ago that he has a girlfriend. They have been going out for almost a month, but I slept with him less than 2 weeks ago, so I feel dirty. I've never had to be the other woman because he's never had a girlfriend before. Now that I know, I'm mad. No one ever knew about us, because we are not friends, and never even speak in public, but behind closed doors, we have a lot of fun.
If this guy does break up with his girlfriend, you guys shouldn't get together, friends with benefits sounds like it'll work for you guys.

Im scared b/c i want to get close and its jsut little to late for him to break up with his g/f they have been dating for 3 years

Your kind of in the same position as a married guy with a mistress on the side. The mistress thinks he will leave his wife, but in reality, its usually just sex on the side that hes after!!

im attracted to dicks too, its just something about them. the thing is hun i know you like him but right now hes using you for sex and even in the future if he breaks up with her would you date him. i sure hope not knowing what kind of a dick he can be. he cheats and clearly has no respect for women. stop having sex with him, he's using you and you probably like feeling wanted by him, but theres only one thing he wants. get out, your better than that!

Thanks chelsey ur a great person and u give good adivce and thanks to everyone else im trying to get over him if it helps i wont answer his phone calls

no problem hun, anytime

Ur right if i dont answer his calls he get all upset he left me a voice mail that said :Paige what did i do wrong i came home from college and i saw u talking on the phone and like 2 mins after that i called and u didnt answer what did i do last time i cheack u begged me to call u but whatever be a fucking bitch i dont care i have a g/f or did u forget i wouldnt leave her for u cuz u wont fucking answer me pone calls but whatever be that way u better hope u chose right that ud otn want to talk to me b/c u wont be talkign to me for a while until u call me so call me back bitch!

Ive been in the same situation really sux. He lead me on while he had a gf 5 year relo....i liked him heaps and his been cheating with her for 1 year at the start he sed he was gona leave her for me but nahhh his just using me confirmed that....its so hard to get outa that habbit coz i like him and its the only way i get to be with him...maybe one day ill get ova it

You should of never gotten yourself involved in a man that has a girlfriend. You're only asking for trouble and trouble is exactly what you're going to get. Either that or you're gonna get hurt because if he was really going to break up with this girl, he would of done it awhile ago just for you. Consider it, seriously. Get out of this mess before it's too late.