Having sex for the first time?

okay. so im 15 and I met this guy in the summer and he's 18. we arent going out but he wants to have sex. I want to too but im not sure if I should.

I would wait I am not going to say you are to young or anything like that but I do believe you should be in a caring relationship plus he might want to think twice he could go to jail for rape if you are only 15 and he is 18

I would wait.. theres nothing wrong with waiting... no your not to young its your choice, but your gna regret giving it up to someone who you dont really care for...

I mean thats a big step. You shud know the person completely before doin that 1. If its just a hook up thats just bad because it wud make you look super easy. and bsides hes 18. he cud go 2 jail. my advice...don't do it..nuthn good wud come from it

dont do it I mean I dont think havin sex at this age is very safe or appropriate and honestly I think its a lil slutty to have sex outside of a relationship if you are doin to and plus hes 18...kinda illegal and this is your first time...do you really want to lose your virginity to this guy...? I mean come on you want to have sex THAT bad. I think you can wait.

if you do decide to... and you get pregnant
I just want to say that I warned u

1st of all if you guys get caught that's like stagortory rape hahha I don't know how 2 spell it lol
and I mean right now at the age of 15 even if you think your ready chances are prob not

cmjcarcam is correct. Saying no would actually be doing him more good than giving in to his will. Statutory rape is serious and can result in imprisonment, so in this case I would say you are almost compelled to say no. He is most likely getting ahead of himself and the fact that there is no emotional attachment confirms that for me. He is fishing in the wrong pond here because 15 is too young for someone his age. You're only 15 years and there is plenty of time left to have sex and do other such things. Just wait a little bit longer .

For one thing, hes too old for you! He sees you as a young naive girl he can take advantage of. If your thinking he wants to have sex because he likes you, your wrong! If your not in a loving, commited relationship, you shouldnt even be thinking about having sex, much less giving away your virginity so thoughtlessly, carelessly. Sex will NOT make a guy fall for you, OR commit to you.

Bad Reasons for sex:
· A need for sex.
· You want the person to love you.
· Social pressure to perform.
· Nothing more to talk about.
· Boredom.
· A curiosity to find out if there's any chemistry.
· You want to make someone else jealous.
· To persuade your partner to leave his or her current partner.
· You're challenging a dare.
· An attempt to solidify the relationship.

Sex comes with many complications, and responsibilities. Sex triggers the deepest of emotions for girls, but guys can have sex with mulitlple partners without getting emotionally attached. That always leaves the girl feeling empty, and used. This guy does NOT like you in the right way. He only wants one thing, then you wont ever hear from him again. The fact that you have to ask what to do, means you are not ready. Wait until you are old enough to understand what it means for a sexual relationship and never allow yourself to be pushed into anything you are uncomfortable with. I am sure hes had a lot of sexual experiences, and sees you as an easy target, because you are so young. Stay strong, and be in control. Dont EVER let any guy pressure you into doing something your clearly not ready for. You tell him NO, and if he ignores you, and doesnt care to be around you anymore, then it proves he didnt care for you...he only wanted you for sex! Guys like him are a dime a dozen. Find yourself a NICE, respectful guy who will treat you like you deserve to be treated, not treated like some boy toy to be used, and tossed away!

If you are unsure then don't do it. Sex in a loving long term relationship will be much better. Do you really want to remember your first time with some guy who probably won't call back? What happens when you meet a lovely (virgin) man and you decide that you've been together long enough and want to make that step - but you've already lost it to some older guy that you barely knew. I advise that you don't sleep with this man. First times are awkward enough. Wouldn't you rather it be with someone you trust and love/care for deeply. Also him being over 18 and you only being 15 makes it rape. He knows that. Yet although he's an adult he still wants to make that risk. Shows that he doesn't actually care for you. He just wants to use you. How do you think he'd react if you get pregnant. Do you think he'd stay with you. Most likely not. How can a fifteen year old girl cope with the pressures of being a teenage mum. And what if he has some kind of disease. Do you really want to half herpes or HIV for the rest of your life? In my opinion I think you should wait.

If you are unsure then don't do it. Sex in a loving long term relationship will be much better. Do you really want to remember your first time with some guy who probably won't call back? What happens when you meet a lovely (virgin) man and you decide that you've been together long enough and want to make that step - but you've already lost it to some older guy that you barely knew. I advise that you don't sleep with this man. First times are awkward enough. Wouldn't you rather it be with someone you trust and love/care for deeply. Also him being over 18 and you only being 15 makes it rape. He knows that. Yet although he's an adult he still wants to make that risk. Shows that he doesn't actually care for you. He just wants to use you. How do you think he'd react if you get pregnant. Do you think he'd stay with you. Most likely not. How can a fifteen year old girl cope with the pressures of being a teenage mum. And what if he has some kind of disease. Do you really want to half herpes or HIV for the rest of your life? In my opinion I think you should wait.

I know it sound stupid but virginity is sooo precius and you can NEVER get it back again. honestly you'll regret it for the rest of your life if you do it. its best in a proper caring relationship. Sex is supposed to be special and fun, not just fun. But anyway it wouldnt be fun if he got done for statuotory rape would it? Hes seen you a naive young girls and wants to take his chances.

Also by saying iwant to but not sure if I should shows that your not ready and you dont entirly want to- so dont hun x

im not gunna say like all these other people are sayin kuz their telling you not to have sex but your gunna end up doing it anyway weather you want to or not just if you do make sure you dont regret it and always use protection...just really think bout it