Have you thought about it?

I dont know ... I think about too many stuffs all day and I always have questions...

Some people are sooo rude whenever they talk their comments are blunt and they break your heart ... I am always thinking HOW DO THEY HAVE A NERVE TO ACT OR TALK LIKE...

THAT !!! it's weird because I cant do it ... What about you???

I can but I'm decent enough most of the time not to hehe.

~Kaff~

some people do that because they are told to do!!! I mean , it all depends on the persons mood at that specific time when he'she is acting ,,, but if the individual is in flying spirits, he/she may act as you are expecting them to act, But ... the thing is Not Every one is Happy Every time, and there were lot of things in their mind running every time..that may cause them to write those blunt comments and stuff like that...at the End...It's the Society which Prepares the Crime and Criminal Commits it...I myself think its Unfair to hate any body in this world, just because they were not treating us Fair...may be this is too lengthy..my Answer is Yes I thought about that kind of people which you are talking about and I just moved ON
Peace...
Cheers,
rAj

Unfortunately I can be a bit blunt sometimes, and my sister says I am tactless. Sometimes there is no way to sugar coat an answer, but I believe I answer people honestly. What would you rather have? A glib answer that spares your feeling, or the truth, however hard it may be? Me, I prefer the truth.

I'm usually very kind and courteous except when it comes to something I'm very passionate about.

For example when people post on here about how to breed their 'dogz because puppiez would be sooo cuteee!' I just want to grab them by the shoulders and scream at them.

With those people I'm blunt and to the point explaining that their dog could have serious problems in birth if they don't know what they are doing and there is so much animal population that they don't need to add to it

lol dulllikeglitter also your name is very difficult but your comment made me laugh :-) take care

Zvbvi3j9,
Especially on this site, I try very hard to couch what I say in a pleasant way.
If the person is having a genuine problem, I feel that they are going to be emotionally fragile. If I come at them with all guns blazing (how could you have been so stupid... it's so obvious ... etc) they are going to shut me out. In order for my advice to get through to them, I need to slip it past their defensiveness. (And I hope that doesn't sound too egotistical, but I have picked up a few tips during my 60 years.)

There is an old saying, You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.

I can't MAKE anyone here do anything, I can only try to convince them to do it for them self. And that means that they have to read the whole thing, not quit reading after the first sentence.

Good Luck!!

O_o yeah I usually just throw it out there

though I do it with a wink and a happy face ^_^

no body is always rude (at least the ones I seen )
only act rude when they can' t stand happens at that moment for Ex if someone makes fun of me I become VERY rude and say mean things that I would never say normally
or if I see some one trying to hurt other people feeling
but am normally very nice to other people

everyone is rude atleast a few times