Did i lose my best friend for good?

Well yesterday i was with my best friend, matt and we were just talking..and i said something which i thought he already knew, cause we like tell each other everything. But he didn't actually know. A lot of my other friends tell me he still loves me, (we...

used to have a thing for eachother) but i dunno. So when he found out he just started arguing with me and all i could say was that i was sorry. He said he has lost his trust for me and that he can't see us being like best friends because he always has to be there to get me out of problems..but he doesn't HAVE to..i know he wants to help but like..i just dont know what to say to him. He means so much to me. I tell him everything and i love him to bits. But what do i do now? i wanna sort things out but he's always with someone else when i need to speak to him. I'm really stuck. What should i do..any ideas?

first u need to tell him how very severly sorry u r . and that u never new this and from now on ur going to tell him evry single thing u find out . even if it means leaving class runing inside his class and tellign it to him . tell him that u cant live with out him hes like ur saver and ur his saver . and also tell him that there isnt anything between u guys any more thats the end of it

tell him its necessary to have a chat . and tell him your upset and confused . you guys might even end up breaking up . but if you do then it wasn't meant to be . if someone ever has double thoughts about being with a person than theres something that shouldn't be there . obviously he is starting to loose interest , maybe you guys hang out too much . just you need to realize you can't be like this the rest of your life .