Have i broken my hymen

hi

I am really concerned about if my hymen is broken,
I have insterted my finger into my vagina and I have felt no pain and bleeding

can my finger reach to my hymen and do you think if I have broke it, my finger easily can enter to my inside but...

somewhere there is a blokage but still if I push slowly my finger it can enter there too

please please I really need help, I can't stop of thinking it and it makes me vry all the time, az ia m muslim, and I should have my hymen intact till the day of my wedding

thanks bye
I am waiting for your reply

Dear Sadaf on the link I sent before there is a picture showing you where the hymen is. It isn't inside the vagina but at the entrance normally the hymen is made with holes which allow your period to come out. Some times you can insert your finger without breaking it what you are doing is streaching the hole or holes on your hymen. Here is a picture of different types of hymens http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.aznewage.com/hymen.1.jpgimgrefurl=http://www.aznewage.com/hymen.htmh=151w=279sz=7hl=enstart=18tbnid=wBya78u29r1k-M:tbnh=62tbnw=114prev=/images%3Fq%3Dhymen%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26lr%3D%26rls%3DGGLG,GGLG:2006-16,GGLG:en%26sa%3DN

Yes the area inside the vagine goes upwards and what you feel is the cervix, the barrier you feel is the end of the vagina. here is another picture of the anatomy of women's sexual organs http://health.yahoo.com/media/mayoclinic/images/image_popup/ww5r142.jpg
Some women don't have the hymen. My cousin got married virgin and she didn't have the hymen. You see the hymen is a thin membrane and can break easily. Don't worry you won't die. Being virgin is not about having a hymen, I'm sure you understand what I mean. May Allah swt help you and guide you. If you have any other questions which you don't want to make PUBLIC let me know so I can contact you and help you inshaAllah.

hey..

it depends on ur hymen.. some womens tear eaisly some dont some do, some hymen are elastic enough not to break, but at the sound of it, i dont think uve broken it at all... x

Also the hymen is on the outside of the vagina, and some women break it due to activites in sport or horse riding and all x

i dont think u forcefully inserted ur finger that hard to make it break, so id say no u havent.. x hope that helps hun x

Imran a.k.a IMiz

buti have inserted mu finger several time in order to fine, i know i have very stupit, but still u think i havent broke it, yh i have inserted my finger harldly, but i did slowly, somtimes i feel the blockage sometimes i dont, i am really concerened that what the hell is happeneing, plz help me, but when i insert my finger, i dont fell any pain or anything

i am waiting for u r reply
thank alot

when your hymen breaks u feel little or no pain, or not bleeding.. some girls dont even know if they're hymen are broken, others happen by mistake like playin excessive sports..

Im sure u havent, cos it takes alot more force then insertin yah fingers in to break it.. IMiz x

if yah need my advice, just keep askin me, i dont mind.. x (,)

You should stop doing what you are doing. It's haram and you know it. If you continue doing this you might actually break it. Here you can have some info http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm

do u think it possible to reach the end of your vagina, because when i insert my finger fully i first feel my finger going upwards then i fell a barier, do u think its back of my vagina, and i am not inserting my finger for pleasure, i am just scared if i have broken my hymen, i just can't stay still, i am gonna become mad like this

plz tell me if its possible to reach at end of u r vagina by u r finger? plz plz

tnx alot

i am not doing it for pleasure iam just scared, that is y i am keep doing it, to c if i have broken it
do u think that its possible to reach at the end of your vagina with finger, because when i insert my finger i feel like going upwards then, i feel that i am touching a section of my cervix then, i feel a barrier aftre, there is no way more, do u think that is the end of my vagina,

plz plz
help me, other wise i 'll die

ok tnx alot

i am waiting

Dear Sadaf,
I understand the implications of your culture. More often than not, they will check your hymen before you get married and if it is not intact, you could loose your right to get married. I am going into medicine and feel that the best way for you to have your question answered if to see a physician. There are planned parenthood clinics that can do an internal exam.
Also, if indeed your hymen is broken, there are doctors all over the world that repair them. They take a small graft of skin from inside your vagina and sew it in place where your hymen should be. I believe I am right when I say that it is not about the hymen, it is the symbol that it represents.
I hope I have helped

Your hymen can be torn or lost by doing all sorts of activitiys. Horseback riding, atv, gymnastics even... I dont think its a very critical thing if its gone. Because you yourself know you have had a sexual relationship what does a little tissue prove. Here are some photos of different hymens.

http://www.healthyst...

my feanci was ripped and the doctor told her ur find u still a virgin how was that possible??

well if you have had sex before it will most likley be broken but if you play sports, horse back riding,or even riding a bike riding there may be a chance it broke .
Putting in a tampon may break it to. But since you say you have never had sex you are considered a virgin. Your hymen isnt just for proving if your a virgin or not, it is just a part of your body. And usually well mostly all the time when it breaks it wont hurt. - kenzeradviser

please tell me if its possible to reach at end of you are vag*na by you are finger?

The average depth of a woman's vaginal canal is 6 inches. If you can reach the back with your finger. Whoa. Tell your husband that so he doesn't try and force himself into you. Your finger is probably only just about under 3 inches. The best way to answer all of your questions to to go to a doctor and ask and get checked out

I have been married 2 years, still havnt broken my hymen. its not so easily broken and can lead to a lot of missery. if your hymen is accidently broken through sports and stuff, ur1 of hte fortuate 1s. I asked my husband 4 a divorce last weeek because I can no longer take the bain and put up with the damn thing not breaking. I also feel very sorry 4 my husband as he restricts his needs 4 my benefit

hey guys I can see you r talking about how gurls can know about being still virgin??? please I am very concerened tooo...can anyone please answer me...I have been mastrubating put like not putting anything inside me like toys and I dont do spports but when I manstrubate I put pillow under me and try to stretch my legs and I rub myself agianst the pillow back and forth...I just wants to know does that breaks my hymen...how can I know iam still a virgin???

hi I am a muslim 21 years old girl.I m facing a problem of labia minora mine are too big as campare to others. I m too much worried about it I m still virgin. is it normal to hv a big labia minora?please help me

Okay, so every girl that is actually born with hymen has little holes in it for your period to come out and a lot of the time, one of the holes will get stretched. I think you probably stretched a hole, because you still feel blockage sometimes, but anyway, you should be careful not to stretch it more because then it could be harder for your hymen to actually break when you get married. (and it will hurt a bit more)

Hey,im muslim toI been fingering myself to make sure im still a virgin,well I put a shaver(the one that you use to sheve your legs,its skinnier as much fingerand then I swa at the end of it brown thing..but after 3 minutes my period has started.so am I still a virgin?

Dear Lena333

Why? Oh Why, did you put a 'SHAVER' in your vagina? Don't do that, just go to a professional- your GP, gynaecologist. Don't start shoving unsanitary objects (shaver like 'the one that you use to shave your legs') into your V. Take it from me, Im a 21 year old virgin woman as well. Being a virgin is more that a flap of skin in an opening between your legs, its a state of being, its a personal choice you have made. Obssesing over whether you are still a virgin does nothing. You and
Allah know the truth about your choice to live a life of chastity until the day you find the person that completes you, your true partner in life.

Take it from me, Im a 21 year old virgin woman as well. Being a virgin is more that a flap of skin in an opening between your legs, its a state of being, its a personal choice you have made. Obssesing over whether you are still a virgin does nothing. You and
ALllah know the truth about your choice to live a life of chastity until the day you find the person that completes you, your true partner in life.

Lena333
Why? Oh Why, did you put a 'SHAVER' in your vagina? Don't do that, just go to a professional- your GP, gynaecologist. Don't start shoving unsanitary objects(shaver like 'the one that you use to shave your legs') into your V.

my father check my vijina to make sure I still virgin because we muslim. he check it with his fengir ans smell it so I no I still virgin. my brother smell it to sumtime an check it with hes fingur to. but when he check it it feel reel good so he want to check it wit his penus an if he do will I stil be virgin if he only my brother?

Like WTF??? Are you serious? I think your brother should stop doing that and if he tests it with his penis then that's basically like having sex and you are not a virgin anymore!!!