Have a boyfriend and aint sure if hes cheaten.......

okay I have this boyfreind that I've been dating for like a year and 4 months and I always hear a lot of sh*t about him like that hes at his ex girlfr. house or with this lil nasty b*tch and I hear stuff constantly but over here in luling theres nuthing but haters but the freinds that I have that give me advice tell me you should always listen to your man (well my man atleast)and not a bunch of rumors. well okay my dude he treats me good and all he respects me and sh*t but like yesterday I found this thing on adult friend finder .com and he had this thing on there that said he was looking for a friend for 1-on-1 sex and it really pissed me off but I mean its on computer so it aint like hes going to find someone but then it still made me mad and hearing this sh*t about him and his ex. hurts me a lot and he dont understand that it hurts cause I had atleast 9 boyfriends that did that to me cheated on me , hit me , or tried to f**k to much , and thats why im saying bout this dude because I lost my virginity to him and I love him so much , my love for him is never ending I mean I've tried to leave him 12 times but its just not going to happen cause he always cries or comes back to me or just gives me this lil look and it hurts cause I chose him over my parents and to think that he would cheat on me just aint in my book. I really icant leave him so my home girl has a boyfreind that cheats on her and she loves him to much but she has a kid and she told me to just cheat on him back but I cant cheat cause to me it just dont seem right. so you know im just trying to find out what I think cause hes my first partner, my first real love and hes never treated me like my other boyfriend's, but now hes been trippen lately like acting funny and yesterday me and him had it out bad but then I told him I cant leave him even tho I hear that he cheats on me cause im in love and love makes you stupid and he just told me he loved me and I dont know wut to do./ PLEASE HELP MEEEEE.

Your situations not new. I've seen this story play out and heard it retold with different names and faces at least a dozen times and in all but one case it always turns out the same. You can take my advice or not. Up to you.

Just from what you've told me he probably is cheating on you. Not only that but now he knows he can do it any time he wants and with anyone he wants because you straight up told him 'I can't leave you even though I hear that you cheat on me cause I love you,'. You just gave him permission to f**k who ever he wants when ever he wants and you'll be at home keeping his dinner warm for him when he's done. Although after leaving him and coming back so many times that message was pretty clear already. Learn from your friends mistake. Do you really want to end up like her? Taking care of his baby while he's out at all hours with whatever b*tch happens to catch his eye? That the life you want? Is that love? That what you want your future to be? That's what it will be if you stay. Go home if you can. Cut him off and go home.

I've been in your situation with a cheating boyfriend for a year and 2 months so I know how you feel. its like you cant leave him cause hes your first sex partner and fist love, your scared to not be with him, everything seems so perfect and you just tell yourself that the good makes up for the bad. well stop thinking like that. Wake-up! you just gave him permission striaght up that he can cheat on you, believe me, I did the same thing. and your right, love does make people stupid, but you can stop it before its to late. tell him its over for good, and believe me if he loves you enough he'll come running back and try to prove to you that hes not going to cheat on you anymore. you dont diserve that and even though you dont think its possible, you can be happy and find someone who treats you as good as he does, but DOESNT cheat. If he really loves you, then he'll fix his mistakes once he realizes that your not going to put up with it. dont ever tell him you cant leave him even if he cheats on you. Thats just telling your guy hes got you wrapped around his finger. you should be a little more stubborn. stick up for yourself. then he'll stop when he realizes whta hes losing.

check his mobile phone to see if there are any girl numbers other than friends and family and messages and you could even test him out by texting him from a number he doesnt no and pretend to be a random girl he doesnt no but like s him and see if he flirts back or admits that hes not single.

let go of that boy!
say: good luck with your life!

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