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I hate my mom's boyfriend

moi Asked by jennybabiix over 2 years ago, 35 answers.

I hate my moms boyfriend what do I do, I am forced to live here with him, and I just cant stand him what do I do?

Me Answered by locoluna on Jan 24, 2007, 06:01PM
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Keep your distance from him, and if your mum asks talk to her about what bothers you about him becos you all have to feel comfortable in your living situation and if you are not your mum should hear you out and try and talk to him about it. Otherwise go to him yourself and try talking to him about what annoys you about him.

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its me Answered by cutiergirl523 on Jan 24, 2007, 05:44PM
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tell your mom you dont like him. make her try to understand. tell her y u dont like him

ME AGIAN LOL Answered by sam_13 on Jan 25, 2007, 02:28PM
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keep ur ditance from him and block him out and tell ur mom that u dont like him she will understand and i am sure she will choose u over him but she havet to find love to if u like him or not so think about her to not just u

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Feb 16, 2007, 08:20PM
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Establish the fact that you do not like your mother's boyfriend with your mother.
Insist that she not force you in any way to be involved with him.
Offer and alternative if and when she insists you be around him- go to a friend's place for a while or etc.
Don't disrespect the boyfriend unless he disrespects you- and if he does disrespect you, let your mother know and get out for a while, again, to a friend's.

Good luck- hope this guy doesn't stick.

my reflection Answered by butterflyeffect21 on Feb 17, 2007, 01:26PM
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mymom has done this to me. i wouldnt talk to him first because i dont know how angry this man can get. tell your mom how you feel about him and if she doesnt care and not do anything you may try talking to him hoped i helped u!

What can I say? Answered by orison87 on Mar 02, 2007, 02:17PM
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Let your mother know how you feel about her boyfriend. She should understand and either break up with him or keep her dating life private so you don't have to deal with the boyfriend.

Whiteboard portrate Answered by filletofspam on Mar 02, 2007, 02:46PM
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Don't you think your mom has a right to happiness? If she is happy with her BF than you should be happy for her.

Don't make your mom choose between her BF and you. Even if you do manage to run him off she will resent it and it will change your relationship forever.

Of course if the new guy is abusing your mom or you than you need to get out of that situation ASAP but if it is just a personality clash than get over it.

Answered by heathy on Jul 23, 2007, 10:59PM

ATM I am in the same situation, this guy has made my parents split up, and I have hated the guy since then, I have left mean phone messages for him, and mocked him, and called him names, but it only seems to make things worse, it made my mom angry at me, and just gave her boyfriend power. So don't give you mom's boyfriend that power. Stand up for yourself though, and tell him exactly what you think of him, and why it isn't an ok situation, and what you don't like about it, stand your ground, also talk too your mom about why he shouldn't be around.

Answered by 13_and_pregnant6623 on Aug 06, 2007, 10:55AM
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ur mom probly wouldent under stand tell ur him that needsto back off and give u some time and space and if thatdont work stay AWAY FROM HIM!!!

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Jan 02, 2008, 08:38PM
53985 answers

Try to run him away ruin his life and make him not like you and your mom

meeeeeee Answered by bethany on Feb 01, 2008, 07:53PM
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ugh join the club

Answered by jammyjam on Feb 24, 2008, 02:12PM

everytime hes around just leave he'll get the hint.

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Mar 26, 2008, 10:59AM
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u should really talk to your mom about it...I had the same probr...but try talkin to your mom and try and keep your distance from him...

me Answered by lilgigi4sho on May 01, 2008, 04:14PM
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tell your mom what you think. ask her can you move in with a family member

drill team uniforms Answered by kellyluvscheerin11 on Jun 26, 2008, 03:29PM
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omg me to!
hes such and a-hole
it keeps getting worse and worse
I know how you feel
I just stay at my friends houses as much as possible and it helps to talk to someone
and if your mom will nvr leave him ull be old enough to move out sooner or later
also if it gets to bad tell your mom or someone like your school
they can help you
happy
good luck

Answered by elvis357796 on Jul 20, 2008, 05:04PM

I am in the same situation. My mom has been dating this guy Bill for about 8 months, I think.

I really hate him!!! He don't live here even though he's here most of the time. And one time my mom and him were watching a movie and I came in and she got up to get drinks for us. Well, he turns to me and says, You know she left the room because she don't want to be in the same room with you.

So,
I turned to him and said, She's my mother, and she will always love me more than you, no matter what! And what you just said to me, I recorded it will a hidden mic.

I showed my mom the recording and what do you know...

HE'S GONE!!!

Answered by needsumhelp on Jul 24, 2008, 01:21AM
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I know how it is just try to avoid him

Answered by sandygirl8 on Aug 24, 2008, 07:56PM
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just twll her the truth and maybe shull under stand

Answered by slish4 on Aug 26, 2008, 05:40PM

kill him

im on the far right sitting Answered by that_guy on Sep 03, 2008, 06:46PM
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I agree with slish but seriously... dont be a sick caz the more you make it obvious the more s*it you get from your mom and thj more he will try to become your friend so when you cross paths just say hey and walk away and he wont have the need to have to talk to u... at least your moms boyfriend isnt one of your teachers

sam the toucan Answered by haniah on Sep 08, 2008, 04:09PM
303 answers

tell your mom you dont like him, im sure shell understand.

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