Does my wife have a fetish?

My wife who runs her own business in the hair and beauty industry, is displaying some strange behaviour concerning her relationship with several of her clients.
As a good looking 46 year old with an outgoing liberal attitude, she is always well liked by all of her male clients, recently though, she has confided in me that during home visits to some of her well heeled clients, some of them have become more forward with her than I would like.
One chap in particular has taken to making suggestive and lewid remarks, telling her how much he would like to bed her, giving graphic details of what he would like to do to her etc.
To me it seems as though it's like something out of the 1800's where the gentry thought that they could say and do what they want with "servants" some of her clients blatandly stand there and make sexual remarks.
The thing is, I thought that behaviour like that would result in a slap in the face! however, my wife seems not to be shocked by this, even to the extent of beeing flattered.
I have noticed a pattern evolving where when she visits certain clients, she dresses differently than normal, for example, lower cut tops and shorter skirts, it seems as though she is inviting the attention from these guys.
When I talked to her about it, she states that she ignores these remarks and suggestions, then in the same breath even admitted that one guy asked her if she could send him a sexy piccy of her! she said no because he would show them around! this means that she must have confirmed that she has sexy pics of herself in the first place!
Not a big deal but exactly what else is she tollerating from these people? I am concerned that she enjoys the attention and even encourages it, why does she give me all this info? does she have a fantasy of being a "tart" for these guys? she is very professional in her job, she has been for 16 years, however, when I see how she dresses on some visits it seems as though she dresses for her clients.... what is she up to?

I am a stylist and have done my share of housecalls. You are dead on about it being like the 1800's where some men think that because you are there to service them, that you are there to SERVICE them and they can say and suggest what they want.

My coworkers husband, after receiving a few haircuts from me, offered me $200.00 to do the haircut topless once! I refused it and didn't like the attention, BUT...he was gross and I was 25 and got that ttention all the time from men.

Your wife is 46 I think it's true that she likes that she's still "got it" and enjoys getting the attention from other men. Obviously, I mean, now she is dressing and playing it up for them.

I think you are wrong abuot assuming she has already got sexy pictures of herself, though. Her response was inappropriate, but it doesn't necessarily imply she's already gone down that road.

She likes the attention and is catering to it. Is it a fetish? Doubt it. But she's probably in menopause about now and feeling her age. You will have to tell her that you do not like what she is doing and that it's disrespectful and inappropriate to your marraige. Men do this when they hit their midlife crisis, too. Get to the bottom of it and demand (don't ask politely) that it stop. Then screw her silly and make her feel like a sexy beast again. Maybe go shopping for a movie or some clothes or my personal favorite, go on vacation and make love to her so passionately that she walks around sore and in pain the whole time. That will fix her little red wagon.

all I can say is, is she loving the attention from other guys because she is not getting enough from you? Also she probably likes the thought other males are attracted to her and that she's still "got it". Make sure you show her she is attractive, she may be trying to get you jealous so you show some interest.

I think she enjoys these flirtings, the only thing you can do also enjoying them with her, together. This is a certain game.

if your wife does theis to you for a long time now talk to her again and be very strict if she keeps acting like this you have 2 let her go . because you dont want her ending up cheating on u . its better that you actually give your wife attention so that she actually feels you love her . if you dont do that then she will go and wait for other guys to do it to her