Has my so-called "cherry" been popped?

I've never had sex before. Sexual intercourse, that is. But I have been fingered by a guy with really huge fingers. Normally there was only one finger used, but this time there was two. As soon as he put them inside me I felt a sharp pain, and it hurt for a minute. Eventually the pain slacked, of course. But when I got home, I had a bit of blood on my underwear. I could be wrong, but I'm curious?

yes it is popped. if anything goes in there it will more than likely get popped.

oh my you know when you have sex it is going to hurt so bad worse than those two fingers no matter how big. But I don't think he popped your cherry(tore your hyman). But it is true anything can pop it like a tampax

It isn't just something that 'pops' and goes away. A lot of people have misconceptions about their 'cherry' aka the hymen.

The hymen is a layer of tissue the partly covers the entrance to the vag*na. During the early stages of fetal development there is no opening into the vag*na. The layer of tissue that conceals the vag*na at this time usually divides incompletely prior to birth. The size and shape of this opening or openings varies greatly from one girl to the next. There are girls who do not have a hymen at birth, as the tissue divides completely while they are still in the womb.

The presence or absence of a hymen in no way indicates a girl's virginal state. Virginity is a spiritual attribute not a physical one. In western (american) culture one usually remains a virgin until intercourse.

The hymen does not magically disappear when something is inserted into the vag*na, it will only stretch or tear sufficiently to permit entry of whatever is being inserted. If for example, a teen lets her partner put two fingers into her vag*na, her hymen may still tear when she has vaginal intercourse for the first time, since the average pen*s is larger than two fingers. A woman who has had vaginal intercourse may still have hymeneal tissue present; this remaining tissue can be the cause of pain during intercourse. If a woman's current partner has a larger pen*s than her prior partners, or a couple tries a new technique or position during intercourse, her hymen may tear again, or for the first time.
Remnants of the hymen are usually present until a woman delivers a baby vaginally.

It sounds like he tore or scratched your hymen which would cause the pain and bleeding.

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more about virginity & the first time: http://the-clitoris....

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