How can i convince her to let me in?

I've been seeing a girl for about 1-2 months now. Shes unsure about committing herself to a relationship, because in the past she was hurt real bad that i'm assuming. Everytime we go and talk about a relationship, she puts a wall up, but with time and...

effort she says thats good. She asked me to go to two different weddings and one of them is her friends and the other would happen to be her cousins and her family is going to be there. And shes unsure of taking me because everyone puts judgement on her relationships. I'm trying to figure out how to break everything down and tell her that its ok. How do I do that? She also tells me that she doesn't have to talk to me everyday to like me, I've never had a girl tell me that.

You just tell her...hey I want things right for you! You tell me what you would like to do, and when I just ask that you remain open and honest with me cuz im afraid of the dark hehehe . If you think i will cause you any discomfort going to your families weddings then i should not go, it wont hurt my feelings cuz your comfort is number one with me and I understand. Of course you know how much i enjoy your company so if its not right at the weddings then will just have to make up that lost time doing something else later together..OK!

I think she will appreciate that... good luck