Hard decision

my boyfriend wants me to perform oral sex on him but I wont..He's says that's a way you can keep your man...So do you think the saying if you ain't doing something right he will go find someone else to do it is true?

its definitely true but if he is only with you so you can suck his junk the nget rid of him becasue it seems like he is trying to force something on you your not ready for or dont like to do so get rid of that litle boy and go get you a mature respectful young man

**if you ain't doing something right he will go find someone else to do it**
that's true in this case considering your boyfriend is a crusty desperate horndog. obviously all he wants is pleasure, he doesn't like you for YOU. sucks. he's trying to use you.

if all he wants from you is that, then (no offense) he's not worth you or your time and affection. and if he would leave you for saying no, he's a loser. you deserve better than that. never to anything you are not comfortable with just to keep your boyfriend.

most guys give oral in return ,,, it can't be that bad make him happy it's really an experience all guys want and there is nothing else like it .. it's pretty awesome he will be on your finger ,, don't think it's degrading yourself ,, it is your boyfriend and you should like to satisfy him and that's one way to do it and keep him on lock down forsure haha.

giving him oral doesn't mean he's going to stay with you... sure he'll like it, he's a guy... but it sounds like he just wants you to have someone to give him what he wants... if you feel strongly for him then this is tough... my boyfriend asked me if I would give him a bj like a week or so after we started having sex... he just asked, and I told him I wasn't sure if I was ready to do that... because I mean c'mon, it's disgusting... but anyway... I thought about it for a while and I eventually did it... now don't think I'm saying my boyfriend is perfect... there was definitely some pushing on his part... like asking me almost every time there was an opening, and he even did a lil' sum sum for me sort as a bribe type thing... when I finally did it,, it wasn't because of his pushing, it was because I knew that he loved me and that he would love me even if I didn't do it... I also knew that it was something he really wanted and I enjoy giving my boyfriend what he wants... now you can't let it get carried away like I have sort of done... see what he does is right before we do anything he asks me if I'll do a little something for him and I got in the habit of saying yes every time because I was afraid to upset him by saying no... don't let that happen to you, because when I didn't want to do it I would just get really silent and that just pissed him off and that's not a good thing to happen right before sex... because he just decides to do nothing at all... and then we're both really pissed off... so don't get into the habit of doing anything he asks all the time... it should be like a special treat or something... don't be afraid to tell him no, if you aren't ready or don't want to, then don't do it... something like that should be on your terms... good luck...

Sexual urge can be strong, so both males and females may go for satisfaction to somewhere else if they do not get it from the current partner. Once you should start and learn giving head. But you are who decides the right time and right guy for that.

Don't do anything you don't want to. It's your right to refuse to give him oral sex. And that saying is only true for some men. I guess there is decent men out there.