Handjobs

my boyfriend adn I have been together for a while now and we are getting more intimate. he fingers me... really well, but every time I try to pet him he doesnt c*m. its not like its my first time either, im experienced in this area so I know what im doing. but no matter what I do he just doesnt c*m. I dont want to give him oral just yet because I havent ever done that and I dont want to use up that resort yet and not get him to c*m then either.
does anyone have techniques they want to share with me that seem to work 'no matter who it is!'?

well for boys to c*m, it takes awhile and patience. When your doing your handjob you dont need to be focusing on him cumming, but making sure you are confindent, are you? if you are, your good! some boys probably dont like the fact that they are going to c*m when they are having a handjob, because then they will think you think that they can c*m easy and is a 'one-minute-man'. but before you give a handjob try something different, like kissing and talking sexy and freaky, that makes a boy hard when he thinks of the things you say you want to do to him. then (if you know his hot spot) kiss him there and play with his hot spot then slowly move into his pants and do what you do girlfriend. you know you can go on the internet and look up other techniques about how to make a boy c*m too.

Well to ensure that a hand job is pleasureful to your guy... make sure you're using plenty of lube. If you are stroking him and it's dry it'll hurt him and make him feel uncomfortable. There are lots of techniques to use well giving him a handjob. Ask him to show you how he likes it best. Different variations in speed are good. In my opinion to make him org**m the best it has to have lots of variaty so he is anticipating every move you make.

You can use both hands. Use them in opposite directions. Fondle his balls. Rub his perenium (the area below his balls... in my experience most guys are way too sensitive to be touched there). Twist your hands (gently!). Just experiment and play around.

***Caution to the type of lube you use. If you plan on having intercourse later with a condom make sure it is water based lubricant***

Hand jobs are always a good prelude to a blow job. Most guys I know are dissapointed at handjobs because they can do them themselves!

okay well im no professional, but I can offer a bit help.while giving him a handjob, try not to just go up and down.close your hands together so your fingers interlock, and then wrap your hands around his di*k and slightly twist going up.try starting from the bottom more often and work your way up, rather than the other way around.hopefully this will help!

'Handjobs are always a good prelude to a bl0w job. Most guys I know are dissapointed at handjobs because they can do them themselves!'

this is true, but they are 100,000,000,000,000,000,000 times better when a girl does it for us lol

Should I use one hand? Or both?

Should I like lay over him when I do?

I need some more help technique wise...I'm sorta lost at what I should do.

thanks!