Who can answer my handjob questions?

okay so I have a boyfriend and I want to give him a handjob.. but I have a few questions...
1. what do I do if he's not hard when I try and go down there?
and how do I know when is the right time to go down there?
2. how do I know when to stop?
3. how do I know if he's enjoying it or not

If hes soft. play around with it, rub it and such, hell get hard pretty quick.
Keep going till he cums
If hes not enjoying it he should tell you what your doing wrong

(use lotion!!!)

well ull no when to go down there. just like put your hand over the pants but right on it an make him horny it will make him hard and then tease him a little by playing with the top of his pants before you go in there and itll make sure he is hard. then when you go in there just do it and when he cums stop but if he doesnt c*m for a really long time then I guess you can stop there... communication is the key!!! hope I helped ~kaitlyn~

get some lubrication from the chemist. any guy will tell you that its the best. also guys luv it when you gently play with there balls with the other hand whilst your tugging them off. good luck and have fun

1. what do I do if he's not hard when I try and go down there?
>>>You can gently massage his pen*s, testicles and perenium(an all too often ignored area between is testicles and anus)
and how do I know when is the right time to go down there?
>>>For most men... there aren't many times when it ISN'T the right time.
2. how do I know when to stop?
>>>When he has an org**m or if he stops you. (or if you get tired!)
3. how do I know if he's enjoying it or not
>>>If he isn't vocal about it, pay attention to his breathing, it'll cue you in to how he's feeling. And if you're gutsy enough, you can flat out ask him if he likes it.

If he doesn't seem to be that into it or you're just not sure about what you're doing, ask him to ''give you a helping hand''. I'm sure he'd pleasantly oblige and give you a lesson.

Lubricant is important so you don't hurt him with too much friction -but get a water based lubricant. Do not use lotion, if you guys end up doing the deed the oils in the lotion will break down the latex of a condom and possibly cause a break. If you don't have lubricant handy, saliva will do. Lick your hand and get it slippery with your own spit, it'll also do the trick.

xox
Sika

You should ask him these questions. After all he's the one who can tell you waht feels good or not. If you are ready to be so intimate physically then you should also try being close to him verbally, by talking and communicating. then you'll always be a hundrerd percent sure that what you are doing is fabulous!

Omg guys luv when you take 1 finger and run it up an
Down there boxer strap thing like right before you hit the di*k if you know what I mean

I think I can give you some advice abt this 'problem'...but I chat only on messenger. If you are really interested abt this you shoult contact me... I am talking serious abt this. I want to help you.