How can I give her instruction in bed?

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 4 months now and I finally got her comfortable enough with me to give me a handjob. When she did it it was fine but she never did before and it started to hurt later so I made her stop. She knows I've gotten handjobs before and that I've been with a lot of different girls and she says she's scared because I would compare her to them but this was kind of embarrassing and I don't want to like scare her off. I tried to teach her to do it right but it was so weird telling her. I dunno. Help!

Girls Love To Talk :P

Sit her down with you and let her watch you and how you do it, by yourself.

Maybe if you do that a couple of times and also talk with her and teach her how she will learn.

Its like a dog you have to tell them what to do or they dont know.

Help her learn. If she has never given a hand job before she could be as embarrassed and afraid as you are. Next time take the time to teach her and help her learn. If you really care about the girl you will take the time. Then she will get the idea that you actually care and you will take your time with things and just don't want it because you get pleasure out of it or anything.

Are you sure she was comfortable with doing it? You definitely have to teach her how to do it in whatever way feels good to you. Demonstrate for her and let her practice. Reassure her that you are not going to compare her to any previous girls you've been with.

You said that it was weird telling her, so maybe you two should talk about it first. Talking works for girls :P

so your comparing his girlfriend to a dog?:P

Never feel weird telling anything in the bed that belongs to your sex action. And calm she down telling that every girl did handjob first time once, and after giving it to few boys, she will be the same good at it as your previous g/f-s were. And if she follows your advice she will be the better handjob-girl around.

thanks for the advice guysi think it will help a lot