Handjob help

I was sitting in a movie with my boyfriend, and I slowly reached my hand down and he let me. Then I was just kinda like playing around with it and rubbing it, but then I stopped because I wasn't sure if he was liking it or not. He didn't even have a boner! We were talking about it later that night and he said he didn't know why he didn't have one. Then like the day after, we went to a movie again and he let me go down again while we were making out. I was again rubbing and playing with it, and then he whispered in my ear, 'You better do more then just play with it.' I felt nervous and presured to go on, but I didn't know what else to do! Any advice on how to give him a handjob that will blow his mind, and make up for stopping? I'm the only girl who's touched it, so he's never had a handjob before, but I've never given one! What do I do?

EVERYWHERE
OH GOD ITLL GO EVERYWHERE!
OH GOD... SO MUCH C*M!!!
ON YOUR WALLS... YOUR CEILING...
DEAR LORD SO MUCH CUMMM!!!

First of all, don't do it at a movie theatre. That's trashy. Maybe thats the reason he didn't get a boner.

I've never given a guy just a handjob, it always ends in something else! lol

I dunno, handjobs seem silly to me. But here's some tips. Make sure your hand is lubed (either with lube or saliva) so that your hand slides easily. Change your rhythm about every 20 seconds(untill he get's close to cumming) It'll keep him guessing. Give attention to the head every once and a while. Sometimes try using both hands. You can twist them in opposite directions (not too hard!) to give him some friction.

I had my first hand job about 3 months ago....I was with my girlfriend who I hadnt been with long. she had her hands down my trousers in her bed room and she was going to giv me a hand job but couldnt because I wasnt hard. I wanted it so badly, but I jsut couldnt. it puzzeled us both for a while...but then I worked it out. it was my first time and I was subconsoisly nervous...I didnt feal it but I deffinatly was, with out a doubt. after a started to get to know her better, I was hard all the time. my adive to you is to tell him what I've jsut said...let him get used to you touching his body and exploring it...let him explore yours also. this will give him more confidence and eventualy leading to the goal.......PING!!!! get what im saying.

YEA WHILE you ARE MAKING OUT AND REACHING DOWN DONT JUST SMACK IT AROUND because THAT CAN KINDA HURT AND IS DEFFINETLY NOT A TURN ON BUT YEA LIKE I WAS SAYIN STROKE IT SLOW AT FIRST THEN SPEED UP BUT NOT TO FAST WHEN HES JUST ABOUT TO C*M(TRUST ME ULL NO WHEN THAT IS) SPEED UP REALLY FAST AND DONT STOP RIGHT AFTER HE DOES KEEP GOING AND SLOW DOWN OVER LIKE A 10 SEC. PERIOD THEN STOP KISSING 4 A SEC AND C THE LOOK ON HIS FACE IF ITS LOOKS LIKE HES STONED THEN you DID A GOOD JOB IF NOT TRY IT AGIAN SOME OTHER TIME BUT TRY USING your MOUTH AND TRY TO MAKE HIM EXPLORE YOUR BODY GOOD LUCK

I don't know how other girls start giving their guys handjobs, but this is how my girlfirend and I got started. She gave me my first handjob about two months ago. We were sitting in my car in her parents driveway kissing. In our last date just before this one, we were sitting in the same place kissing, and she kinda ran her hand up my thigh, and just barely touched the tip of my pen*s. I thought it was an accident, but I kept thinking about it, and it made me want her to touch it more. So, on this date she did the same thing, and I moved her hand all the way up my pen*s. She got the idea and began stroking me through my pants. After about a minute, I couldn't stand it any longer so I unzipped my pants, and took it out. She kept on stroking until I came in a wad of tissues. She was really good at this. Afterwards, we talked about and I asked her who had taught her to do that. She said she had been dating since she was 15 (we are both 18 now), and all of the guys she dated wanted handjobs, and several had shown her how to do them in different ways. So, now, I get a handjob every time we go out on a date. I also finger her, and sometimes she has an org**m. I am a really lucky guy, I think.

Thank you guys for your response! I took your guys' advise and he LOVED it, but he couldn't c*m! So I moved on to a blowjob and he LOVED that too, but he still couldnt c*m! So he started to jack off, and the whole thing took over forty minutes to c*m! Eventualy he did, and he said he loved the whole thing and doesnt know why he couldnt c*m. Ecery once in awhile I would hear him whisper or mumble or whatever, 'We need a condom' but neither of us had one atm. I don't know what to do, he sayd he wants to do it again...but I don't know if he will c*m...

Well what ever you do make sure you use protection. You don't want to get your hand pregnant.

Itz like this !!! therez a place in the pen you have to rubbed a lot !!! there its very sensertive,,, it on the top (side). if you do this,, I think he ll c*m soon !!!

If a guy doesn't c*m when you give him a handjob does that mean I was bad.

When he c*ms how much will come?

Will it get everywhere?

just take your middle and pointer finger around it to your thumb and go up and down nice and smoth.. then go faster and faster... you'll start to hear him breathe harder... I gave my boyfriend a hand job.. and he was breathing hard..and then he cumed everywhere...
hope this help..bytheway... do it somewhere private... he might not have gottin a boner b/c people were around... and maybe you should give him head... its scary to a girl to do that like I was..but I liked it..but jsut try it.. if ya dont like it.. tell him.. and if he is the boyfriend you tink he is.. he will respect it...

Hey. I'm a dude and me and my girl want to do this because we can't arrange for anywhere else. I'm just worried what we should do to like, pass the time? Cause it would be kinda akward to just sit there and look at the screen while she's stroking me off, lol.

Any ideas? Like kissing or something?

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