Handjob at 14?

Is it ok to give a handjob at 14?? Should I?

Well technically it is okay, in that it is more responsible than doing certain 'other' things, but I am going to advise against it. At your age, puberty is still happening and that really gets your hormones raging. You need to be mature and you need to respect yourself. Do you really want to be viewed as someone who does this kind of thing at your age? At your age, you should not be thinking about sexual activities, etc. If a guy is asking you for a handjob, then he needs to learn to have some respect as well. It is okay to wait and you will feel a lot better if you do. Don't do something that you'll regret when you have so much ahead of you. Focus on school instead !

not really
at least not just random guys hand jobs, because those guys dont respect you or your feelings, they just want someone to get them off
if you want to engage in any sexual activity
you should learn about it first
take some time to learn about a boys and your own reproductive system
as well as pregnancy, birth control, contraception and sti/stds
but if you want to, make sure you learn about sex first
and also think a bit about your reputation
if the guy tells his mates and they tell there mates, ect
word spreads pretty fast and a lot of people will quickly know your the girl who gave that guy a handjob
so at least make sure its someone you have feelings for, or are going out with

NOT IT IS NOT! You are still so young and you shouldn't have to perform sexual acts on any boy at your age. If a boy is pressuring you into giving him a hand job, he is a pig who doesn't deserve you. You need to grow up a lot more before you start getting involved in intimate acts like this. You also don't want to get a reputation as a girl who does this. Rather break ties with the people who are doing this and find yourself friends who are acting their age.

Ok see I dont agree with her. It is ok it is a natural part of life. but still you shouldnt do anything untill YOUR ready. Do not let a guy push you into things. it is not a good thing. Wait until you find a guy that you really like. dont just do it cause they want you to do it cause YOU want to. cause it wont be fun untill your the one who wants it. if you do it befor your ready then it wont be good, if you do it when your ready you will like it a lot better