Will my hair go orange if I do this?

I've only dyed my hair about 2 or 3 times before. first, I dyed it a
dark brown ( my hair is a darkish kind of brown its naturally). then,
I wanted to make it a little lighter by putting thick blonde hightlights
in my hair ( but it wasnt a very bright blonde, it was like a light caramel. )
buttttt I didnt like it so I went to my natural hair color again. (dark brown. )
so I decided that during the summer I wanted to go a really light brown
and I told the beautician at the store that I wanted to go really light, but I
also reminded her that I have a lot of orangish /red natural highlights in
my hair so she told me to use this purple stuff that tones down the red
and orange in my hair. I dyed it and my hair turned orange still! and now,
before school starts, I want to dye my hair golden blond with low lights.

im realllyyyyy worried I'll turn orange though because I've seen it happen
to my friend who died her hair all blond from being a brunette and she was
ORANGEEEE. I dont want that. do you think I'll go orange if I try it?

You say the stylist suggested you use some purple stuff to tone down orange and yellow hi-lites? If you have your hair colored blonde and it comes out a bit too brassy or with an orangish tint, purple pigment would be the right thing to use. The stylist was not mistaken. Now why your hair still turned orange, is the question.

Golden blond with lo-lites would be very pretty.

Are you going to go to a salon to have this done?

The reason your friend turned orange is because the product was removed too soon before it had time to get through the red/orange stage of lightening.

I think you will be ok, just make sure you go to a salon. Maybe try a different stylist.