Guys answer only - skinny is sexy?

Hey, alright well I have a younger cousin who is constantly asking me what I think guys like, whether they'd prefer it if she was skinny (she's not fat, but she has a little extra weight on her thighs and face, everywhere else she's pretty thin) and I...

don't know what to tell her anymore. I've tried telling her guys don't like too skinny, but what about remotely skinny? Like just healthily thin? Do guys really concentrate that much about it? I don't know what to tell her, guys, answer me: is it really that big of a deal if girls have a little extra weight in one or two places?

You shouldn't be so worried about being the right weight to attract the opposite sex.

Everyone should strive for a healthy weight and stature; you should want to be fit and healthy for yourself, not to attract a mate. If you spend your time trying to mold yourself into what you think someone else wants when will you start being yourself?

Eat healthy and get a healthy amount of exercise and you will be both healthier and more attractive. Don't go overboard on diet or exercise trying to reach some ideal.

Not all guys even like the same thing. Some are attracted to skinny, some like curves, and some like Rubenesque figures.

Well i like a bit of meat on a girl,the kate moss look does nothing for me.You look at the famous paintings of woman,they are all hour glass figures or a wee bit larger.

no. Not really. I mean, a little meat on the bones is alot more attractive than too thin. But healthy thin is perfectly fine.

I can answer for my fiance.

I have lovehandels and my stomach is pretty thin but there is no muscle. I just started to workout again and go on a diet. He has been doing this diet seriously for a month and the fat from his abs is melting away and you can see a six back. It's so sexy! He wants me to do the same. Not be skinny, but healthy and toned.

i like a girl that is skinny so u can see no love handles or rolls but if u can se her ribs and bones stick out.....na!

slightly chubby in the face is good to give a complexion but everywhere else i like just healthy thin i dunno bout otha ppl

I prefer a girl with a lil weight NOT FAT just enough 2 hold on 2 like a Alicia Keys ( My beautiful wonderful talented future mother of my child)

Girls normal weight should be 120 or around there, that's probly the best size.

Boys should have a weight of 170-180, girls don't care as much as guys do for a body (depends, most girls like personallity more, but a hot body is a plus).

i dont think that u can have a specific weight for any girl. us girls come in different sizeds and shapes whoever says one body type is pretty is ridiculous. just stay healthy and do sports and there you go be happy.

exactly........... i weigh 160 but i am more athletic, the weight is in muscle i have a flat stomach and there is no 'excess fat'. u would never have guessed i weigh that much but i do

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but people who are on the lean side and fit usually look better.

As long as I can hold her without feeling excessive squishyness or boniness that is alright with me.

So here on South Beachm Miami, we get a pretty good sampling of all kinds of women every day in the skimpiest of attires.

THis may be my taste... but women with a little bit of flesh on them come off looking the sexiest on the beach. The women with the skinny model look are really beautiful, but not at all sexy. And trust me, we get a lot of those here :-) haha

i'm 47 now and past worrying about what others think about my size... but all my life i've never been less than 140lbs and have been a hell of a lot bigger, but have never been short of admirers... i have dated men of all different sizes... and yes beauty is in the eye of the beholder and who whats a woman that is all bone anyway, slim yes but skinny a def no...if you're personality shines through then no matter what your size , someone will find you attractive.

who cares about weight??

I know your question IS a good one, and I can see where you're coming from, but weight shouldn't be the only thing in this world.

personality 100%

Weight doesnt matter. I mean I know I am a girl but still. Honestly. Ok ,heres what I have and what my fiancee thinks. Ok. I have love handles, meat on my thighs and butt and my stomach isnt completly flat, but my fiancee always tells me that its just more to hold on to so that I cant ever leave him. He loves me for me he tells me, he loved me when I weighed 110lbs and he still loves me at 1**. So yeah.

gothik, thats not true.
not EVERY girl is supposed to weigh 120.
if a 5'9'' girl weigh 120, she'd be in serious trouble probably.
and she'd look gross, mroe than likely.
know your facts buddy (:

For me, don't be too skinny. try to have alittle meat so guys don't just see your bones.lol

it all depends on who you are... a lot of guys prefer big girls. butts boobs and hips!
its true. and I've recently found out from a little research that guys dont tend to notice your problem areas unless you point them out or make them aware that your uncomfortable. they totally dig confidence in a girl...