Why can't guys seem to listen & pay attention to you?

This has been bugging me for the longesttt.
Ugh, why cant guys be understanding and actually listen to girls feelings and what they have to say ?
That would absolutely be THE perfect boyfriend.
why do guys have to want us for our bodies and basicly...

nothing else ?
Both girls and guys please answer this, I want to know your opinions asap.

Cause guys werent made like girls,,, guys dont even want to read a birthday card if it has more then two lines lmao
A guy likes a girl who doesnt always talk about her self your emotions and can talk about other stuff.
Some guys are actually willing to listen if its serious but no guy wants to hear a girl complain about stuff,,,

There are bad guys that just want a girl for her body but there are also girls that just look at a guy for his money...
but if you subtract these type of people from the equation you will realize that there are guys that dont think thats all a realtionship is all about ,

if your busy looking for this perfect guy good luck you going to be searching for while lol relationships true ones have there faults and so do both girls and guys

Yeah she has a point. Guys don't too much think with their emotions. After you are with a guy for a while he will learn to be more sensative towards your emotions, however it takes a guy years and years to finally grow up and stop being that way, Hey some never do.

I always dated guys who were at least 4 years older than myself just so I could hold a conversation with one. Men are men and you should marry the one you find who does listen to what your saying. lol.

donnt youu knoow guys are assholes. they dont care abouut us girll . they just want sommee youu knoow - ahha

I listen to my girlfriends and im pretty understanding. and I deffinatly dont just want girls for there bodies, I wont even consider a girl enless she is decently smart and has a good personality.