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Who pays on a date, the girl or the guy?

Asked by surferthebomb 4 months ago, 11 answers.
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when you go out on a date or just to dinner, does the girl or guy pay? and who is supposed to pay?

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Answered by ty on Jun 03, 2008, 11:22AM
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Hmm it is complicated today, a long time ago it was simple... the guy paid.
I've heard it's the person who does the asking who pays?
Usually I just split it... If it's dinner and a movie, one person pays for movie (and popcorn etc), the other pays for dinner...
I think it depends on your particular situation...

Answered by bethx on Jun 03, 2008, 11:31AM
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I'd say guy but I dont know why (thats not meant to rhyme)I just see it on t.v but I'd split it like ty said its easier

Answered by surferthebomb on Jun 03, 2008, 11:42AM
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I totally think the guy is supposed to, cause its just ya the right way

Answered by cupcake5 on Jun 03, 2008, 11:44AM
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guy I guess..sometimes chic if she really wants to and if she invites..I don't know..

Answered by evilpinkpunkfairy on Jun 03, 2008, 11:57AM
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Usually if your going out as friends you split it but if it's a romantic kind of date then the guy, preferably, but it's not set in stone. Gentlemenness is always quite a turn-on. lol

Answered by babygirl22 on Jun 03, 2008, 03:33PM
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The guy supposed pay!! the girl is never supposed its the guy job to wine and dine his girl!!!

Answered by missxdona on Jun 03, 2008, 03:57PM
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I honestly could care less about who pays. I mean, either way - Someone's paying. A guy on the first date would be sweet and a few times randomly after that, but letting him do it all the time, just isn't a way I would go with. I'd say split it half. Easier for everyone. ^___^

Answered by trying2understand on Jun 03, 2008, 04:56PM
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whoever did the asking pays
so if the guy asked you, then he pays
if you ask the guy then you pay
or just go Dutch

Answered by butterfly_kiss3z on Jun 03, 2008, 04:57PM
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like missxdona has said, having a guy pay on the first date is always sweet, and a good way to start the relationship!! but it's also rude to have the guy always paying when the two of you go out. my boyfriend and I normally take turns treating eachother or sometimes we pay halves =)

Answered by jessica77 on Jun 04, 2008, 02:31PM
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at first the guy should pay...its a way to start off a good relationship...as time goes on maybe give the guy a break and go half...but to answer your question...first date = guy should always pay..its just the right way to do things..hope this helps!

Answered by sally_91 on Jun 04, 2008, 04:20PM
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its easy!! if you guys are frnds then split..if your dating the he should pay>>EVERYTIME...thats why he's the guy!! if he doesnt pay and lets you pay then he's kind of a cheap a*s boyfrnd!!!