What if i found out my parents talk about me behind my back?

Ok - I'm gonna spit it out...

I had this fight with my Mum once and it was really big... We fight a lot but anyway - i was so mad, when she was upstairs, I looked in her inbox on her mobile. there were messages from my dada saying i no, I dont blame...

you - not many people can put up with Kate and oh ill b home in a few hours - has that child cooled down yet?? I was so hurt that they talk about me behind my back, by text.

What should I do??

How dare a parent talk behind their childs back !! - what right do they have to try to work together to ensure their child turns out to be a responsible, caring, loving, well-adjusted adult - how dare them 1) attempt to look out after your best interests 2) Love you enough to actually CARE about you !!...and done 'Behind your Back' !!...nice spit out...

What should you do ?...I think be 'Thankful' you have parents like that - many, many don't and try 'honor your father and mother'

I wish you the best !!

confront your mom and dad and let them know how you feel ... i can s o relate when i was younger me and my ma would fight alot to but my dad was always on my side i would talk to your dad and tell him you would rather have him come to you then talk behind your back also just know that there parents they just want the best for you , and there just like us they get fusterated too im a mom and i get so annoyed sometimes by the way my son acts .but once it blows over everything is ok hope this helps...missv

Are you feeling the slightest bit of guilt because you should not have been looking at those private text messages. How would you feel if your parents read your private things? I have had conversations similar to what you described with my son's father. Those conversations were not in anyway an insult towards my son. I get very concerned when I feel he is making bad choices and I get frustrated when I don't know how to reach him to let him that I love him very, very much. Your parents talking about you is a good sign they care deeply about you. Maybe you should concetrate more on what it was that made them have this conversation in the first place.

oh my god i hate that! my mom and older sister do it all the time! it pisses the hell out of me. i know it hurts, but you should deal with it how you feel it is right. when that happened to me, i texted my sister from my mom's phone and yelled at her about it. They'll feel bad and they'll be embarassed too.

no confrontin ur mother and father is wrong and its a very bad idea.just sit down and hav a talk wit ur mom and just tell her how u feel.if u tell her that u hav been goin through her phone readin her text messsages then she will feel lik u hav invaded her privacy.i kno what u r goin through.but heres some advice its not good 2 be fightin and hittin ur parents back. i kno at times they can tick u off but just dont say nothin 2 them.i bet that thats hurtin ur mother deep down inside,my moma always told me disobidient kids dont really hav a successful life.gurl god is watchin everythin that u r doin.he's watchin u everytime that u hit ur parents.u may not be dealin with wat GOD has instores 4 u right not but trust me u will deal with it later.so stop being an disobidient child cuz u r shorten ur days of life.get down on ur knees and pray 2 GOD and ask 4 forgiveness