How to stop the sadness of my grandma having cancer?

my grandma has cancer and im really sad ! I dont want to loose a great person. I have never lost a family member before and I dont know what to exspect or what to do. im going crazy just thinking about my grandma being barried in the nasty cold ground. what should I do to stop the sadness? its unconroled sadness I can stop thinking aboUt her!

My great grandma passed away from cancer, it was probably one of the saddest things I've ever experience. I actually watched her take her last breath and was there the entire week she was in the hospital. I honestly had a really hard time over it, the one thing that helped me the most was going to a counselor to take care of the depression I was going through. It's nothing to be embarrassed about. They won't give you medicine, most likely they will tell you about the grieving process and how got cope with it.

grieving is perfectly normal, the loss of a loved one is a very hard thing to face.
stay connected to your family, they are going through this as well, just don't face it alone.
katydid's advice is very good- talking to a counselor is a good way to start.
and do not let your pain lead to unhealthy behaviour, such as cutting- drinking, etc.
if you face your pain now and let it out in a healthy manner- alongside the rest of your family- all of you will get through this.
keep your head up- and let your pain out.

I am so sorry for this difficult time in your life - it's hard to face but something we all must deal with even the fact that we too will face it - I would pray for strength, support, and grace to handle this situation - if able, tell her what you need to now - remember all the great times and wisdom passed - all of you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

I am sooo sorry that you are going through dis...my great gramma died and I felt exactly da same...it makes me happy when I think of gd tyymes we had and you got 2 remember shes happy up in heaven and she would want you 2 b happy...she is always with you watching over u and proberly calling you her little diamond she loves you and wants you 2 have a happy life...she wants you 2 know she is fine and 4 you 2 stop worrying babe gd luck on patching up !! xxx

you should just charish every minute you have with her and you should listen to thid song it helps a little its called 'In The Floor of Heaven'