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Good enough

Asked by saleisha 6 months ago, 3 answers.

I love my boyfriend so much, but I always get the feeling I'm not good enough for him. he talks about other girls a lot, and I try to change and be more like them I supose. I also keep having dreams that he breaks up with me, in really embarassing ways...

lol. I'm not too sure what to do?
thankyou (: x

Answered by albelcrowley on May 08, 2009, 05:10PM
342 answers

Hai :]

Aw, sweetie... Look, I'm a guy... and I always talk with my girlfriend about other girls, okay (98% of my friends are from the oppositve sex)? But you know what? Love her the way she is.

Don't worry about it.
And don't change... if he's datin' you, it's because he likes you the way you are.
If he doesn't, he doesn't deserve you.

Look, everyone has its own personal shine, that includes you :]

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jus pretty no matter wat iz goin on Answered by cluelessizdaname on May 08, 2009, 05:08PM
23 answers

um... I would say talk to him when he is calm so he wont get heated abut it
try to understand why he acts like that and don't change for noone. b who you are and he will love u for bein u
talk it out alone wit him

hope I help =]
[even da tiniest bit]

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kitty Answered by ty on May 08, 2009, 08:10PM
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Cant really say it better than albelcrowley...

I know it seems really easy for us to say well if he doesnt love you the way you are, then you're better off without him. Because what do we know about your relationship, and how much you care about him, and how much you need him. And you're right. We dont. But what I do know, is that if someone loves you, they love you for who you are. They love you for what you're not. They bring out the best in you. They do not make you feel inadequate or like you need to change. Of course this could all be in your head. Either way, it comes to the same conclusion. You need to trust that this guy is with you because he wants to be with who you are.
And quite frankly, if he doesnt want to be with who you are, then you need to go find someone who does. You will find that person... But not if you give up and just try to change who you are for someone else... You wont succeed, you'll make yourself miserable, and all for what? The fear of being without a boyfriend? It is possible to survive without one...

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