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Good age for starting sex??

Asked by peacenlovealwayss about 1 year ago, 10 answers.

im 13 and I love my boyfriend and hes 15 and I want to have sex with him. do you think I should?? if not what age do you think is good to start??

Answered by tomh on Sep 23, 2008, 10:01PM
4 answers

go ahead but use protection to avoid stdsand unwanted pregnancies. The sooner you start the more years of great sex you'll have.

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Answered by curiousmuch on Aug 31, 2008, 04:23PM
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well do you think your going to spend the rest off your life with him, doe she want to have sex aswell, normally I'd say 13 is too young but if your in love I dont think it matters

The mirror shot was accidental, :) Answered by gennaglessnerr on Aug 31, 2008, 04:24PM
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There really isn't a good age or a certain age teens should be having sex. It depends on who your with, if you have protection and weither or not your ready. Both physically emotionally.

But judging by your age, 13 is too young.
In my opinion, if your not financially ready to support a child.. then you should wait. Since that's what comes from sex. You should be able to raise another human being for 18 years if an unexpectected pregnancy does occur.

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me Answered by shadowboxer on Aug 31, 2008, 05:11PM
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Agreeing with Gennaglessnerr here if you can't support a child then don't have sex because that, it won't happen to because... It just won't sh*t doesn't really work in the real world and even if you are completely protected every single time there is still a good chance it can happen. And at thirteen if you are already bored with making out hand jobs and blow jobs then you're going to be tired of sex at fifteen and then you have another eighty years to live being bored as hell with nothing to do.

me and me Answered by candicemarie88 on Aug 31, 2008, 05:23PM
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I think it is too young, but it is your decision. at 13 you think you are in love, but it's your age, hormones are everwhere and many emotions too. I would at least wait a few months and if you are still together and feel the same way then ok. also keep in mind boys of his age will say anything to get into a girls knickers, im sorry, but it is true. if he is putting you under pressure then he is just after the sex part of the relationship. to find out his true intentions maybe see how he reacts when you refuse to do anything sexual, if he is annoyed or pressuring you then he is not worth it, because having sex is a big step at your age. if he does dump you for another girls who is up for it then youre well rid of him!

LEANNA Answered by leannalx3 on Aug 31, 2008, 06:03PM
114 answers

NO...TOOO YOUNG...ONCE YOU DO IT YOU CAN NEVER GET YOUR VIRGINITY BACK...

BUT IF YOU DO LOVE HIM AND YOU 100% SURE HE LOVES YOU BACK...THEN MAKE LOVE THEN...LOL...YOU CANT STOP THAT FEELING YOU HAVE INSIDE OF YOU...

BUT PLEASE MAKE SURE YA'LL BEEN GOING OUT MORE THEN 6 MONTHS ...AND MAKE SURE HE'S NOT MAKING A BET WITH HIS FRIEND. QUSTION HIM AND ASK IF HE'S A VIRGIN...

IF YOU DECIDE TO HAVE SEX THEN MAKE SURE HE WEARS A CONDOM...BE S.A.F.E.-

(to answer your question on what's the best age its 16 and over)

-Leanna

black and white Answered by kattie8451 on Aug 31, 2008, 06:39PM
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if you are asking us you arent ready. wait till your a little older and are ready and love someone very much. hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

Comment for copa_town_hooligans's profile Answered by xxxgizmo13xxx on Aug 31, 2008, 06:46PM
287 answers

There's no such thing as a good age but there is such a thing as a proper age. I'm not going to say my opinion on that age but to let you know the age of consent is 16 in the United States. That means both people have to be 16 or older to have sex without it being illegal. People under the age of 18 cannot have sex with people 18 or older. So just be sure you follow the laws of consensatory sex because if you don't and it's found out and charges are pressed against the person you lay with it can ruin his life forever. Date rape, statutory rape, ect... can be claimed with either party and it can ruin some lives so just be careful.. BONNE CHANCE! (french for good luck)

Answered by trinichick101 on Sep 27, 2008, 03:55PM
10 answers

I dont think there is a GOOD age for starting sex if you think your ready 4 it go head but if deep down you know that it isnt something you want and your just being pushed dont do it

Answered by primordial on Sep 27, 2008, 09:09PM
54 answers

Don't do it if you think you will together forever, because you won't. Don't do it if you think it will make him love you more, it won't. Don't do it because everyone else is, that is lame. Don't do it just to do it, you will regret it. If you do it at 13 I can assure you that you will regret it anyway. He most likely WILL tell his friends eventually, it most likely WILL get around to people at school, and you most likely won't like what you heard that he said about it. At 16 I can see it (I say horrified) , but you may be in a meaningful relationship by then, but at 13 I'm sorry to tell you that you are just playing house and pretending to understand what boyfriends/relationships are all about, you are still a little girl and should stay that way as long as you can. You will always be growing up, you can never grow back in the the child you are, don't ruin it by doing adult things you are not ready for emotionally. Make your first time special, not something you did to hold on to someone who will probably be out of your life in a year anyway. That is how life works, we grow and learn and move on to new relationships, don't waste your virginity on this one. Good luck.

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