How do i deal with my boyfriend lacking romance?

u wldnt believ wat my dude's about,he doesnt call,he doesnt make plans to meet me,ol we do wen we meet is.....,he doent buy me anythn,he doesnt tell me he loves me,he hates sms's,infact,he hates romance,he wldnt be caught dead holdin my hand in...

public......now,why do i stay with him,HE'S SO CUTE!!!!!!!!.somebody tell me i'm stupid.i knw,how do i get rid of him,thing is he's totally killed my self esteem,got me thinkin i'l never find a better dude....how do i clean up this mess....?? dnt worry,i'm not ugly or anythin,i'm actually a nice honey....help!

Sounds like all he's into is the bedroom action. If you really don't wanna be with a guy like that, you need to break it off quick. If you stay with him too long, you might find yourself unable to get away from him. As for the self-esteem thing, you just have to tell yourself that you deserve better and you won't have any problem finding a guy who actually treats you like you're an actual person, and not just a steady hookup made to satisfy his desires.