Giving my boyfriend a blowjob ... failed.

This question is a response to my first question. Thanks to artteacher2010 I learned some new things and tonight I tried it. My boyfriend said I have gotten much better..but unfortunately I still didn't get him off, but this is my fault because my jaw...

got really sore, it felt like I got lock jaw or something. It was about 20 minutes into the blow job and I couldn't go anymore, but also he had his hand on top of my head, but I was scared because, my very first bj I ever gave was by force and my current boyfriend at that time would not let me back up. So I got scared and started to cry. Now my boyfriend feels bad because he thinks he hurt me, but I said it's my fault, but he suggested just not to give him anymore bj's but, I want to make him happy, and it's not fair to him...and what really sucks about it is...he said I was really close to getting him off..like that just tears my confidence apart. I feel absolutely terrible and cannot stop getting upset..im seeing him tomorrow is there a way to make it up to him?? Also, any tips for this blowjob problem??

whoa whoa, you need to slow down and relax. It is much more important to your boyfriend that you are happy and well than satisfying him. If you started to cry then maybe you shouldnt be doing it? im sorry for what happened to you. Honestly dont let this get to u, if you were really close to finishing him off then good on you, you did a good job. This is something YOU are doing for him, if you get a sore jaw, tired mouth etc etc then you just stop, you dont owe him anything, and he is lucky for anything you give him. You control the situation; you start when you want to start and finish when you want too, its up too you and im sure he will be grateful for anything he gets. So dont go getting all upset and thinking you owe him something, because he actually owes you.

I know you get tired when doing this so take regular breaks and just give him a hj, while you rest your mouth/ drink water etc etc. A good way to do things is start him with a bj and finish with sex, that way you get the best of both worlds. (if your up to that in your relationship) Otherwise I honestly wouldnt worry about it, it sounds like your making a big deal out of nothing, as I said; the best thing for your boyfriend is knowing your happy and well. Dont worry so much about it, you will get better at it over time, no one is excellent at anything the first dew times, it takes practice from both of you, so next time you try it , take breaks when you have to, ask him what he likes and what feels good and stop whenever you like.

when your jaw gets sore, stop using the mouth and use your hand...and when your mouth feels better go back to the blow job...this will help you beable to finish him off!

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