Giving my boyfriend a blowjob

I have known this guy since 1st grade and in 7th grade we started going out. we have been off and on, but we have been going out for the past 4 months straight. I am 13 and he is 14. we are on the same bus and he gets a little touchy feely. he plays with my thong, he is down my pants(just on my legs), and he tries to make out with me. I dont really mind that though. lately he has been talking about how he wants a blowjob and stuff like that. we made an agreement that we wouldnt have sex until at least highschool. my best friend(an neighbor) have been talking about going to giant eagle to get condoms just in case something does come up before that. she has a chest with a lock that we can keep them in. I am not sure if I would be making the right decision if I would give him a blowjob. I am nervous. I am not sure if I am ready. can you give me some advice?

Hm, your only 13 and he's 14, his hormones are raging right now, raging very much they are.

If I were you I would stick to the simple basics of foreplay and leave oral out. Here, this is the perfect age chart for certain sexual things...

15 - Possible oral if both are ready
17 - It's ok to have sex now
21 - It's ok to have children, IF you want, risk are applied.

Those are the age rates you want to start doing things like that, since your still much younger than him I wouldn't give him oral just yet. Tell him that you aren't ready and you would really rather wait at least until freshmen year of high school.

A boy will most likely ask for sex almost any age so just remember, his mind is very naughty right now, when he's 15 he will want more, and when your 15 you'll be ready most likely. If you'd like to talk about this in a deeper conversation send me a private message.

- Gothik

You said it best yourself, you don't know if your ready. If you were ready you would know for sure. You wouldnt have to ask questions. Wait a bit, until that time comes... and then see how it goes...

~Tiffany~

at 13 and 14 you r just starting. if you have sex now what is to say he wont walk then want to keep him think about that sweet and I have a daughter who is 19 and a son who is 16 and they both are waiting till they find the one they will be with till death do us part you need to think really hard before you do it and hun I am not saing this being mean or old fasion either just dont mess up your life for a boy who might go once he gets it

hun at the end of the day your are NOT ready for this kinda thing, if you were you'd know! you should never do anything you're not happy with just to please a guy, respect yourself and your feelings, it's not right for him to force you into this.. sex is a big step in a relationship, and if your not ready will be something you may regret for years to come. tell him how you feel and if he dumps you then that means he was only after sex (which it sounds like he is anway) so he's not worth it. respect tour body and with the right guy you will feel ready.. you're way to young for this stuff... if you do go ahead then use condoms, but be sure this is what you want and not just what he wants... remember with a lot of guys they have sex with the girl a few times, get her to give him a blowjob and then finish the relationship and move on to the next girl.. plus he will prob brag to all his friends about how he got you to do it.

Sounds like he has a problem controlling his hormones. By you allowing him to do the things he does, is giving him the impression that he can take things alittle further with you. He doesnt want a relationship with you. Dont give into his needs> He just wants to use you. It doesnt matter how long you two have known each other, its how hes approaching you....He wants a blowjob? Girl, grow a backbone, and tell him to blow himself. Hun>your only 13. NEVER let any guy talk you into doing anything. Wait to be in a relationship with someone who truly cares about you.

well it is just a blow job I see nnothin wrong with it as long as you wai to have sex I think it is cool

Ok, firs of all, he should not be touching you like that if you are uncomfortable with it, and if you are nervous, dont do it!! Im also 14, and Im dating a 17 year old and weve bennd going out for a lot longer than you two have, and he always wants a blowjob, and I get nervous, but he dont mind. But the thing is, we have had sex, but it's different for us, we have been ging out for more than a year. And also, I think he is being immature by doing those things to you on the bus, I dont think you should let him touch you in front of people, ITS GROSS!! expecilly if you dont want it!