Giving head !

My boyfriend has been asking for a few weeks, for me to give him a head. I have never done it before... and im not really sure what to do.

Can someone please tell me how to do it and stuff ?

also... if he cums do you spit or swollow?

Oh lord how do I explain this the way I want to... Ok it's NOT the same as say sucking on a lollipop. You want to put the penis in your mouth (avoid the teeth, please for his sake), then create some suction inside your mouth while moving you move your mouth up and down the shaft of the penis. Let me see if I can find a guide or something...

http://www.totse.com/en/ego/self_improvement/howtogivehead179584.html says

iving head is something you have to learn from actually doing it. You can read how-tos and tips but only when you actually apply it does your ability show.

First, you need to be enthusiastic. If you hate giving head or don't want to do it you're not going to be good at it. If you're afraid that your bad at performing fellatio don't worry, it'll come eventually (pun intended).

Getting down there is a common question. There are a thousand situations you could be in and I couldn't possibly cover them all so I'll go over the most common: laying down on the couch/bed. You're making out, groping, moaning, and you want to go down on him. You don't just want to tear his pants off and jump down there (Although sometimes that's totally acceptable). You want to be suave and sensual.

You have to be on top, if you're on the bottom, roll over so you're on top. Move your hands up his shirt, rub his chest with one hand while rubbing his dick (through his pants) with the other. While your doing this, his shirt should slowly be coming off. Most likely he'll take his own shirt off, if not, take it off for him.

Move down and kiss his neck, gentle biting and licking should get him hard as a rock. When you go to unzip his pants, it's better to just sit up and look to see what you're doing. That way, he can help if he thinks you're having trouble. Attempting to unbuckle a belt for 10 minutes is a mood killer.

Once you get it out, go back to kissing, biting the neck, suck and lick nipples and make your way down. Kiss down his stomach while using you hands on his chest and dick.

Tada! You're there! So you have it in your hand and you face is right there.. what do you do now?

Lick the head. I don't mean lap like a dog. Be seductive. Swirl it around the tip, lick the ridge of the glands. Make out with it while pumping gently with your hand. After a few seconds of this put the head in your mouth. Suck gently and make sure your tongue is moving the entire time. Remember, there's no such thing as too much saliva; it should be lubrication for your hand. Your hand should act an as an extension to your mouth; make sure when you're going down with your mouth, your hand's going the same way. Keep a rhythm.

Cup his balls in your other hand and caress. Move your head in a figure 8 while pumping up and down. Remember to use your tongue and gently suck. If you think you're going to gag, take it out and start licking and kissing the sides and head till the feeling subsides. If you can deepthroat, this would be the time to do it.

After pumping up and down for a while, move to his balls. Lick `em, suck `em (NO BITING) while jacking him off. In one motion lick up from his balls, all the way up the shaft and deepthroat. That's one they always like. Another good move is to penetrate your mouth with his dick. Close your lips tight around your teeth and slowly push his dick in your mouth. (Be careful with this, it can be done wrong.)

Once you start getting good, you won't have to hold his dick. You can use your hands to please yourself or touch him more.

To finish: This is intense and you cannot let up. Move your head up and down in synch with your hand. Keep using your tongue. If he starts jamming you head down you can move your tongue to the back of your throat so he doesn't gag you. (They get too excited sometimes).

You can do of 2 things from here:

1) Let him cum in your mouth. If you swallow, do so as it comes, don't let it build up in your mouth and try to gulp it down. If you're a spitter, try to have a cup or something to spit in close-by before you start messing around.

2) Get off and jack him off the rest of the way so he can cum all over himself.

Very nice descriptions Arabfilly! The only thing I would add is to use you one free hand to rub your clit while you're doing it, because it's so much easier to get into sucking and swallowing when you start to get aroused yourself. Later on, you can sit on his face in the 69 position and have him pleasure you at the same time.

i agree with arabfilly, but as the recipeiant of several hundred BJ's i can honestly say that the worst one was GREAT.. but I can tell you when and where and with whom swallowing took place.. its a biggy with guys,, but not a deal breaker.. my wife of 21 years spits into a towel,, but i can remember every girlfriend that swallowed like it was yesterday..

Wow... I can now type with one hand!

i say buy a dildo and practice and u can use it for other stuff

Ok if you dont want to do it dont if your boyfriend doesn't understand forget him but if you want first start off by getting on top of him grind on him till he gets hard then start kissin and givin him a light hikki on his neck next go down slowly and slowy un zip his pants once you get there to his penis tease him by only lickin the head in a circular motion then go down on his d!ck slowy in a circular motion also now he should b3 extra hard after suck it as if you were sucking a popsicle only put half in your mouth so you can teae hom bring it in and out in and out slowly if you can stick the whole thing in your mouth that's called deep thourghting now if he cums I would spit but its really up to you

I'm giving my mate lad head tomorrow for my first time but not his, what is deepthroat? and when he cums in my mouth I dont know if I should spit or swallow, people would call me a wimp if I spit and I dont know what he will say! I dont wont him to tell people how crap I am for my first time and what does cum taste like? and how can I keep moving my tongue and swallow and do everything else at the same time without gagging? pleasee help me x