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Should I be worried that my girlfriend likes my friend?

Mikeyyy Asked by mikey50 about 1 year ago, 2 answers.
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ok well me and my girlfriend have only been going out for 2 days BUT we've been "REALLY CLOSE FRIENDS" or maybe more than that, for the past month and a half... we've been hugging for hours straight and kissing and pashing and everything.. but we're officially going out for 2 days only.. I asked her out and she finally said yes.. I DID ask her out about a month and a half ago but she said she'd rather be just friends... but 2 days ago I asked her "are you sure we're just friends?" and she said "I dunno anymore.." and she kissed me right after she said that. so everything pretty much seems perfect so far, doesn't it? well not really.. ok well she hangs around me at school at lunchtimes and I have all these friends of mine hangin around me as well.. and I have a feeling that she sort of likes one of my other friends too (his name is Daniel).. BUT I COULD BE WRONG! so I dunno WHAT to believe.... :\ I asked a close friend of mine if I should be worried about this situation and he said "I don't think you should be worried, im in the same situation as you right now and I don't worry that much bout it"... he's at a similar situation with his "future-to-be-girlfriend" or whatever she is. so yeah, whenever Daniel calls me or I call HIM my girlfriend screams into the phone "I LUV you DANIEL!!" and then I ask her as a joke "u just love him, don't ya?" and she goes "yea totally.." so I dunno if shes serious or not.. :S I also asked her if she likes him that way and she said no.. so all I want to know is . SHOULD I BE WORRIED OR SHOULD I NOT BE WORRIED???? HELP

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Sue90 Answered by sue90 on Mar 30, 2007, 08:59AM
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Dear mikey50,
The biggest part of having a successful boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is communication. So You need to communicate how you feel. Remember to always you an I statement such as I feel uncomfortable when you tell Daniel you love him. I feel worried that you like him more than a friend etc. I know for some males it is difficult to converse in these terms but if you want to have the answers to your questions you will have to ask her. At your ages you are better to stay friends with casual dating because there is a lot of maturity that comes with exclusive dating. That's why us adults nag so much about waiting to date seriously.
Sue...good luck

get e up Answered by escortagino on Mar 30, 2007, 11:53AM
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Stop stresing and just enjoy your friends. Hang with all of them and see what develops. There is plenty of time before you will want to choose just one from the lot. Don't smother her. Let her have the freedom to enjoy both of your friendships. - - Good Luck - - Gino

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