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I agree with mr_smedheader... orgasms are not as important as the moment.. you shouldn't really be concentrating on that... just get into it and like mr_smedheader said... tease her... wait to go into the sex part until you get some practice in with oral etc... If you get a chance check out this question/answer... its not 100% related but it is more in-depth on the subject...
http://www.funadvice.com/my...
you may also want to read up on http://www.the-clito... it has some good information about females, oral etc..
As has been said, try some oral sex (concentrating on the clit, not too hard unless she is ok with it) and masssage (just rub you hands over her body, particularly her back, neck and backs of thighs. Use something to help your hands glide such as aftersun or moisturizer). And if you remember one thing from this, remember
Tell her how much you like doing it! Tell her how good she tastes and how much you love it, how good she feels!
This is what will stop her feeling that you might be getting bored and that you just want a shag. Make sure that its you telling her how much you want to try something so there are no feelings of guilt on her part, so even if she doesnt org**m she wont feel bad because you got to try it.
Tom
Girlfriend doesn't want an orga**m!?!?
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I've started dataing this girl and I really like her and we have started having sex and its so special! The one problem is she hasn't orgasamed. She is my first sexual partner (we're 16) and I think I have an idea of what to do and I want to exsperiment. I know it will take a lot of practis but I want to make her feel good even if she doesn't orga**m! The problem she isn't keen, she feels like she has failed me by not coming from sex. When I try to stimulate her clitoras she tells me just to shag her because it feels so good. I know I should be complimented but I can't help thinking that however good the sex might be SHE JUST DOESN'T WANT TO FEEL LIKE EVEN MORE OF A FAILIOR. What should I do to perswade her to let me try and give her an orga**m (AND THEN WHAT THE HELL DO TO GIVE HER ONE)