Girl trouble please help

ok. I'm only 15 and in high school but girls are so confusing. This girl likes me and I like her but she is just odd about it. She will randomly just stop talking to me for a few days, will randomly just put up her away message when we're talking. I'm pretty sure im not crowding her because I haven't texted her in about a week and today she was like "why haven't you texted me lately?" I im'd her and she just puts up her away message. I don't understand what she wants me to do. Is she trying to make me get frustrated or miss her so I say something? If you need more info to answer this just say something but I need help please.

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Alright, well Girltrouble820.. I think this girl is playing games with your mind. A lot of girls do this. Have you told her you like her, and if not, do you make it kind of obvious? Most likely at that age, girls feel superior knowing a guy likes them. They tend to have the ball in their court and they take action by making you chase her around. Nothing wrong with a guy chasing a girl EXCEPT when the girl is making you believe in false hopes thus resulting in you chasing a girl and mainly wasting your time on something that isn't going to happen. So, I suggest you confront her and say what's going on. Why does she do that? Tell her, "I IM you and you go away, I don't text you and then you ask why I don't... WHAT DO YOU WANT?"

And to answer your question, I know exactly what you mean by being "WHIPPED". I have an older brother. Don't do everything she wants! She is no one to have you whipped. Don't IM her on AIM, don't text her, don't do anything she would EXPECT you to do. Cause then she still knows she has you in the palm of her hand. Do the unexpected. And to chase a girl is basically... hmm good question lol.. Well I know when my boyfriend chased me he had to get my number from someone else, he had to keep up with me cause most times he was free to hang out, I wasn't and he would show up where I was, I would never call or text him, he would have to do it first and most times I didn't answer so he needed to send another text and say "Am I boring you? " and he would be all cute about it. I wasn't playing games with him, I was just living my life and he just wasn't in it lol. He wanted to so he made the effort for me to notice him.

Well, I wish you all the luck!

Ok, well maybe she has reasoning, I do not understand why should would not alert you or tell you what is going on, but sometimes people are just weirdos like that.. anyways, go up to her and be like "BIT*H WHAT THE HELL IS YOUR PROBLEM? " lmao.. no, I'm just kidding, but just ask her what is going on, and what the buisness is, anyways, good luck, and I hope everything works out..good luck.

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superfresh.

man. ain't that a bytch. well, I guess she likes u, and is tryna get your attention. but then like I don't know. dude if I were u, look 4 another one. thts pretty much what's in your hands

She is either really awkward towards dating and is scared to get into something, OR she isn't into you, but loves that you are into her/ giving her so much attention.

I dated a girl like that...I broke up with her, because I didn't understand. BUT, I found out later many that girls like to be chased around and play little mind games with guys. And when I asked her if thats what she was doing, she said yes!! Its frustrating and it makes you think, "What the hell?", but if you like her that much where you can stick with it, this thing might work out for the both of you.

this is "girltrouble820" again I don't think she's scared because she has gone out with guys before...its not like her first time. I don't know she could be busy lately the past few times I've im'd her because she has told me she usually doesn't say bye to people she just leaves...which is kinda weird but w.e

She playing with your head I do that some time play mine games with a guys its fun to do watch you get all carzy... but really girls like for guys to chase them and if you don't she is going to fu*ck around with you head!!

ok but how do I "chase" her and a problem with that is all of my friends are going to say I'm whipped. Basically doing everything she says if I play that type of game. And I'm probably going to get answers that say don't worry about what others think but I kinda do care about what my friends think lol.

keep the advice coming please

Maybe you could try doing the same stuff back to her to try and get her to understand. Ell used to do wierd sh*t like that to me all the time. Especially when she was PMSing. I think it was mainly just that she could never make up her mind and she was incredibly impulsive. The only way to really make them understand is to have it done to them. If that doesn't work, talk to her about it. But I mean if you guys are talking put up your away message right in the middle of a conversation and then come baack a few minutes later. If she asks why just say "You din't think that was funny?" and continue like everything is normal. You might p*ss her off, but then just explain what you were doing and ask what her deal is.

ok I talker to her about it and she was like im not the type of person who says bye. She kinda got pissed about it and I was just like whatever...and said are you purposely confusing me...probably not the best idea...and she was like I dont purposely do anything. And on the phone she said we're just friends right...and I was like uhhh yeah. She changes her mind a lot I guess.