Girls this is for you: dating a younger guy?

Would you date a guy 5-7 years younger than you? Its understandable that that is a big gap and many girls may say no.

However if your answer is yes , then would you keep the relationship secret or make it public?

Well its Nice to know that Moshposh wont swing any lower than 18. hehe

I was invited to this Question, I didnt want you to think I couldnt Read.

All Cheekyness Aside as Fruity puts it - For Females who are in there 20s. You are women, ok. Your adults. In highschool its easy to have a relatioship because you know your kids. You know its all balony, your not looking for a husband. ok its all fun or its suppossed to be.

When your in your 20s you should be careful who you hook up with, because that person could turn out to be a husband down the road. In your mind you may be thinking Oh this is just for fun I'm not marrying him. But you put 6 months in and you find yourself deep in love with him and It will be hard at that point to not think of marriage.

SO - you should date people you think would be good husbands and make good money while your not In love with a particular guy because that is when you make good decissions. Thats when your clearheaded enough to say hey this guy isint going anywhere Cut him loose. Dont what till your in love to try to pull away from a guy 5 years younger than you making minimum wage, with no insuranse.

Wake Up Laidies - you want to date Fine Date Prospects. Many of you Date Suspects, Suspects are fun and dangerous but cant afford Expesive Diapers and Wipes or Formula or pay your doctor bills.

not really... id probably go for an older guy... ^_^. lol. but if I did, id go for a guy like 1-2 years younger, not 7...

5-7 years is an awful lot at my age- it matters less as you get older though. I know women in their 30s dating men in their early 20s. Good on them for being able to look beyond age, but personally, I couldn't do it.

dating a guy who is 5 - 7 years younger is not going to look to good for me im 19 so the poor guy would be like 14 so I dont think so

all cheekiness aside, if I was in my 20s or 30s I still wouldnt date a guy that young, as we all know blokes tend to mature later then us... I think 1 to 2 years younger would be more feasible and I wouldnt be ashame to be seem with him in public.

looking at my age, 22, havin a boyfriend 5 years younger isn't that bad, but that would be the extent or the youngest. but if it's 8 years younger, whew! I can offer sister-brother relationship instead.. lol! for a guy younger than me, depends on how his intentions and sincerity is and of course, level of maturity and thinking.. it all has to come along together.. or else, I'd continue datin my guy over 30.. Ü

aaauugghhh!!! id never!!!nonono!!! ew it would b like dating my lkil brocuz hes 5yrs younger then me..ewww

For me it depens on the age I am at, if I get to my 30's I don't believe it'll be such a big deal, but now...I'll be dating someone who is in high school and not even nearly on the same level as me.

no bc im not going to jail, and more experienced guys are a lot more fun.

how shallow are you girls !!!

I might as well adopt someone who is 5-7 years younger than me!

I agree with moo_dog_spot. Ladies your men should be an investment in your future, not an expense!

I've been with guys, both casually and seriously, that cover the spectrum. The previous was 5 years older. The current is 6 years younger. The previous got the boot because he couldn't get his life together not only for us, but for himself. I almost fully supported him. The current is independent, focused, driven, ambitious, respectful, and eager in all kinds of tasty ways. He tries to spoil me, but I don't let him most of the time. I've never been ashamed of anyone I've been with.

Typically I go for guys 15 years older than me, but recently started dating a younger man. I am 30, he's 23. It felt really weird to me initially, but once I got over the age thing, he is very mature and we have a lot in common and have a TON of fun together. It also helps that he always tells me how beautiful and terrific I am! =)

eh I know a 21 year old dude dateing my 14 year old friend not cool I look at her as my lil sis and I am disappointed but oh well she loves him...I forgot what my point was..?

I'am!!! The sex is insane, we laugh a lot, he is in aww of me ( which gets a little old) but when it comes to serious life matters...completely on different pages. Don't know where its gonna go don't really think about it and don't have expectations! If someone comes along that I'm interested in my door isn't shut regardless of age you gotta give a person a chance if their is a mutual attraction setting age and all the superficial money and crap aside.

LOL, no, simply for the fact that a guy younger than me would be around fifteen.
That would be ridiculous.

Older men are A++.

at my age now, definitely no, because then he'd be 9 to my 14! lol but 1-2 years isnt bad, as long as they are mature enough and on the same level as me, and are respectful of me then I wouldn't mind. But I don't think I could go for a guy 5-7 years younger than me because I never was one to like younger guys anyway.

P.S. My current boyfriend is 1 year younger than me and two grades lower than me but it's still cool