Girl at school

There this girl at my school and she is so mean. My first year at my school was going nice until she came and pushed me around and everything. Shes mean to every body what do you think?

Well it seems this chick has some self esteem problems, and pushes others away. Does she have any friends?

yeah, and there all boys, she always acts so stupid around ALL the boys that she hang out with

Yeah well...here's the thing with "being one of the guys" if she's trying to get a boyfriend that way, it sure as hell doesn't work. I mean...I try to act friendly with this guy I liked...and he took it as not flirting but just being friendly and staying as friends...and toying with me, which can happen...so eventually she'll get hers. Don't worry about her, at least she isn't singling you out.

yeah, I guess

Why...is there more?

well, yeah, I mean all the boys that I like, she finds out that I like them and starts flirting with them too much like theres no tomorrow trying to make me jealous

*sigh* Man I hate it when someone flirts with a guy I like! Totally not cool, one of my old friends named (Krysta) knew how much I liked this guy and then she started telling him he was cute and stuff. He wasnt interested in her though. Lol.

Um I would talk to him more and talk to him about things he likes, like music, sports, movies or whatever he is interested in that you know of. Make him enjoy your company and conversation and maybe he will talk to you more, or be more interested in you.

Yeah...and if she shoves you or something, shove her right back! Show her that your not afraid of her, don't back down. If the guys you like are worth it, than I would say fight for them! You seem to be a delightful person, so I say they would enjoy your company more!

I did get in a fight with her once because she kissed my boyfriend. shes the one that got hurt the most and im the one that got the broken heart. O_O

I agree, you seem very nice. =]
Make sure he likes you back so you don't waste your time "fighting" for him though.

Like how does he respond back to her when she flirts with him?

negatively, positively etc. ?

he broke up with me because I beat her up bad and he didn't like it. so that meant that he probably liked her more, so I just walked away and forgot him. plus, he flirted back.

Then in that case, I would find another man that sticks by my side and would know better to not flirt back when he is in a relationship.

your right

I think that you should stand up to her and tell her that she needs to treat everyone the way she wants to be treated, if she ignores that just tell her that everyone is going to hate her someday and that she'll just be friendless and lonely. Hope my answer helps your problem!

Tell someone you trust like your counselor or even your principal/parents!!! Go for it!

shes a bully and why gosh dont I just hate bullies :| she needs some one to put her in her place but ovb violence isnt the answer but it is in some cases. well everyone says tell the teacher, tell your mom, tell your friend. but when all this was happening to me I done that and it did get them worse because it allwais ended up back to the teacher who did nothing or some times tried but failed. but I do admit in secondary school they are a lot stricter about it. mmm I dunno you should talk to someone who will stick by you and who you know will 100% not say a word like your best sister or something. and then if they say tell the teacher and you do and it all goes wrong then you know that your sister or who ever you told wont stand for it and well I suppose you can bothh aproach that girl together because think about it, no one will go on her side because she is nasty to all them, hey they might even approach her with you