Getting your cherry popped ..

does getting your cherry popped hurt ? wouldnt it be embarrasing
if you started bleeding everywhere !? :| ... how old
do girls usually start fingering themselves at ?

sikashimmer, I think you were right, cause I play LOTS OF SPORTS!! and at home I NEVER lay down in the livingroom or sit and watch TV! I'm always helping mom in the kitchen after lunch, and in the morning I make breakfast with her, and if she has to go buy groceries I take care of my little brother! cause if I don't he'd go crazy and mess up my room!! I just LOVE working!

I fingered myself at 14 and it poped at 15 and now im 16 and it is all better

like saturday I had sex with this guy that I like and he popped my cherry and it bleed like a little bit. I was so scared

It hurt me... I didn't bleed a lot... I only noticed it when I wiped (gross I know sorry) but it just felt like I ripped my skin a little... I know that a couple days after my first time I had the urge to sit on an ice pack lol

For me it didn't hurt
it was a little awkward
maybe that was because I was young at the time

It doesn't usually bleed a lot
so don't worry about that

and girls start to touch themselves at all different ages
don't feel pressured or insecure because people that you know are developing before you
you'll know when the time is right

Don't rush anything though
I can honestly tell you that when I lost my virginity I regretted it
I was 12 and not ready
so wait until you are ready
I would hate to see you regretting something like losing your virginity

be safe
love
~alwaysmy20

Ok so the first time I had sex I was 13 and I was scared because I didnt bleed I thought that I was not normal then I found out that the so called cherry is just a peice of skin put there to protect you from any infections I also learned that some girl have a bigger one that hurts worss and bleeds but with me I didnt even have one this is compleatly normal dont worry if you dont bleed its normal. And it hurt a little it was more like a burning sensation not the type of pain I expected. but yeah that is just my advice so yeah. Um I never finger myself that is what I have a boyfriend for lol j/k but it is normal I guess around 11 or 12 I don't know.

Ok Well Im 15 years old I still havent got my cherry popped my boyfriend said hes never fingered a girl before so do yu think it would hurt more if we just had sex before me losening up |also does it really hurt that bad when you get your cherry popped|

Not everyone will have their cherry popped. When I had sex for the first time, I did not bleed at all, even though it did hurt and took a while inching everything in slowly. I don't think people should worry about it. Some people bleed, others won't! It's no big deal!

I have not had sex yet but I started fingering myself at 13,,,I love to masturbate,,and it is not embarrasing ,,it is a perfectly normal thing for a teenage girl

I lost my virginity almost 7 years ago and some times it still hurts so you just going to deal with it

it depends on how it gets popped, during sex? masturbation? sports? mine didnt hurt because I had it popped during gymnastics.

you got your cherry popped.

did you use protection? if not there is probably a high chance of HIV because you don't know how many people he has slept with before and don't know if he has it. I would go to the doctor and get it checked.

Ummm. there is no absolute answer to that .First of all... if my cherry popped, and I bled all over, I probably wouldn't get embarassed. It's natural and it's saying that your body is trying to adapt to changes including a guy ripping through your pu$$y... But yeah, we finger ourselves when we're ready. I personally do not finger myselfand im 15. I don't feel the need for that. I just sort of massages my clit.

I just got off my about 2 days ago, and my boyfriend and I had sex,well he put it inside me for a min then pulled out. And yes, it hurt but not very bad, just felt like a pressure, and then it turned to pleasure. But I looked at my underwear afterwards to check for blood cause I figured he popped it, but there was none, but when I went to the bathroom and I wiped there was blood, and still is blood, but it doesnt really get on my underwear its just when I wipe.
So I cant tell if im still spotting from my period, or if he popped my cherry
Any advice?

I just got off my about 2 days ago, and my boyfriend and I had sex,well he put it inside me for a min then pulled out. And yes, it hurt but not very bad, just felt like a pressure, and then it turned to pleasure. But I looked at my underwear afterwards to check for blood cause I figured he popped it, but there was none, but when I went to the bathroom and I wiped there was blood, and still is blood, but it doesnt really get on my underwear its just when I wipe.
So I cant tell if im still spotting from my period, or if he popped my cherry
Any advice?

omg so I had sex for the first time like 2 weeks ago im 21 and I wanted to wait untill I was in love so I did and omg it hurt soo much then my boyfriend got some gel that supposed to give my vagina a tingeling sensation and it BURNED so bad and I was soo mad at him for that I spent like a couple minutes pouring COLD water on my vagina since it HURT from the GEL. I didnt really like my 1 time its not how I imagined it. I went home and I did noticed like tiny blood but it was like 1 drip so I guess THAT was my cherry or w.e .

A 'cherry' is NOT located deep inside the vagina-Instead, it's nothing more than a thin membrane across the opening of the vaginal canal. So it's pretty much on the outside, not the inside. Not only that, but the hymen is not a solid sheet.

Also, it's important to understand that hymen's don't pop or even necessarily break. Usually what occurs is a stretching of the hymen during penetrative activities. Some women do experience some bleeding or burning as the tissue stretches (especially if they have a more stubborn or resilient hymen-or less abused ones which is formally torn/worn down by dildos, masturbation and tampon usage, etc.) Others are born lucky.

but when your bleeding after some sexual activity-maybe, just maybe its because someone never cut their nails, or was too rough, too big-it could be a lot of things. To avoid this, you could use a lot of lubricant, spit, soap, oil, and make sure he/or yourself stretches you out gently prior. One finger, two fingers-spread them a part a bit, thee fingers-you get the picture.
Just remember if he is gentle with you, and he/you prepares you before penetration- It minimises the chances of blood and pain. Besides, if you have long stenches of nonsexual activities-you will feel the familiar discomfort anyways.

I am 20 and when my hymen broke, it bled a whole freaking lot. I cried it hurt so bad. I bled so much that I thought I was on an early period, but it was even heavier than a period.

you can bleed from other things aswell. bleeding from your vagina through physical contact doesnt always mean your getting your cherry popped. it can mean you have damaged it through being too rough in intercourse or fourplay.
for example. once I had sex and it was pretty rough and I ended up bleeding and not being able to go for a wee afterwards because you have to remeber its a senstive area. if you arent gentle of course it will bleed or get sore. and dont let someone finger you will long finger nails !!! haha

When I had mine poped it was the 1st time I had sex,, It didnt really hurt, that part that did hurt was having my boyfriend not finger me first. Its not embarassing, I bled a LOT and for a good day or so.. But it didnt really hurt . I never fingered my self so I don't know