Getting over it

I've asked a a question before about my problem with my husband and I I love him so much he tried to cheat on me he hide the fact he mastubates to porn and checks out women but I chose to leave it alone cause he says he loves me and apologizes about...

previous things he tells me to get over it because even though it happend a while back I should just stop questioning him and investigating his emails and computer or phone I should b strong and trust him what should I do if I love him I juat cant get over it!

I believe that if he tried to cheat on you, he has some issues with your relationship. As far as masterbating, ALL guys will do that. As far as checking out other girls, my wife says looking doesn't hurt but, if you touch, I will cut off everything that is important to you.. I am very happily married. I do have eyes. I think you need to talk to him about the way you feel. If he can't deal with that, there will be a guy who will understand you, love you, and be willing to work with you to sustain a quality relationship. I hope all works out well. Let me know, I am interested in how this goes.