Why do I still love my ex?

Why is it an ex. can hurt you by cheating and you can hate that person, But she calls you turn jello and realize you still love her. What is up with that ? Am I a idiot ???

Dear freedn07,
This is why we always say never keep in contact with an EX. Some say they can remain friends but they do admit to it costing them as it is you. Familiar things are hard to give up even when they are damaging to us...we see this in addictions all the time. In a sense you are addicted right. So someone would not go into a bar who is an alcoholic. So someone who still has feelings for their ex even though it has been a bad experience is feeling the same thing. Do not have contact with her, no text, no calls...nothing. It something you know you must give up.
Sue...good luck

Awww... it's because you weren't ready for the relationship to be over and she went and screwed it up, but it sounds like you did what was best by breaking up with her after she cheated! Now you just have to stay strong and maybe ask her not to call anymore... that's the only way you will get over her, just move on. Depending on the circumstances and if you really love her, you could also give her another chance if you feel that it won't happen again and you could maybe learn to trust her again. Don't take her back if you aren't sure though! Good luck!

buddy I have the same problem... when I c my x I meat

the first impression last for life

to tell you the truth my ex boyfriend cheated on me and I still love him but not enough to get in a relationship and we live right on side of each other.