Getting a handjob ?

I want to get a handjob (or maby more) from my girlfriend. we've dating for a
while and I've fingered her but she hasnt done the same for me. I dont talk
about it much, because I dont want to pressher her but when I do bring it up she
says she will,just not tonight. its not a huge deal if she dosnt but any
advise on making it easer for her giving me one would be helpful ?
and to straiten a few things out im not presshering her to do this,
I didnt finger her so hed do the same for me( I did it because it would make
her feel good ) im not just after sex ( I've had it allready with my ex, and
im not in a rush to pressher her to. I have gently guided her hand down
there a couple times but she always ends up moving it away. so any advise
could be helpfull !

shes scared. simple as that. she'll open up on her own time. try to make her feel as comfortable as possible. theres really not much you can do, its up to her. Just dont pressure her, maybe next time when you guide her hand down there move it around and tell her you like that. maybe she'll get a little more confidence and keep doing it by herself. Or else she might be very offended. you have to try and decide yourself how she would react.

Seriously dude, you've posted this like 5 times. -obsess much?

She's not interested.

I remember being in this situation a long time ago. She's nervous and scared she'll mess up. Especially if you've told her you've had it done to her before. She doesn't want to seem like she doesn't knwo what she's doin. Ask her if she's scared and tell her not to lie about it to you. And ask her if she wants you to tell her how to do it. It's a scary thing if you've never done it before. Just ask her questions.