Get him to be more into me?

I know this sounds really pathetic, but I like this guy in my class. he sits behind me in my la class and I have math, science and pe with him. I started to like him, until I foumnd out that one of my friends sort of liked him. she knows him better and has mroe classes with him then me and I feel like im trying too hard. I always get mixed vibes from him, but hes alawys the ones 2 talk to me... What shud I do to make him more into me? maybe to hang out with him more or something...im not sure...*sighs*

You can't really force somebody to be into you more, I think you should just be yourself and let him notice who you really are! And make him notice you for you not for being somebody else, and if you feel like your trying to hard just lay back abit, if he still doesnt ask you out or anything, have you thought about asking him out?

I agree with diwager be yourslf around him

If he starts the conversation, then chances are he is into you enough to want to chat. They are rite, there really isn't a way to make someone like you. And you really don't want to try and get someone to like you. Then they may end up liking you for the wrong reasons. but if you want to see if he is into you here is something you can try. You know the saying "you always want what you can't have" well In a way it's kind of true. Act as if he isn't there, don't be mean about it, just very casual. Don't start any conversations, or look at him when you walk into a room. If he does like you he will notice that you don't notice him. So he will try and get you to notice him. It's worked on two occassions for me. The first time I didn't even mean to do it but the second I was testing this guy and it worked.. so good luck and most of all be yourself.

I think guys like girls who seem unavailable to him, they like a challenge. if you're always around and smiling in his face, it may seem too easy and he it wont spark his interest. if you flirt with him a little with confidence and also with an attitude that you are not easy to get and that not any ole body can get you, you might have more success. dont make it so obvious how into him you are, maybe come to him more like a cool friend and try to not pay much attention to him romantically. just kinda speak to him like hey how's it going with a smile but dont linger too much. have a nice moment and leave it at that. do it regularly he'll get used to you guys speaking and bein friendly, make him want to get to know you better. be interesting, talk about things he likes, things in common, laugh at his jokes, so on and so on. just dont make urself too available. hope I helped!

ok, well, this is the writer. and I understand what most of you people are saying. But basically, I am one of his best friends and I txt him almost every day, so he notices me. and I think it wud be weird 4 me 2 play hard-to-get. I dont no. I guess the real problem cud be me jealous to his 2 other best friends(whom are girls) I mean, he treats us all alike...*sighs* then how do I deal with jealousy?

well I dont know him...you can't force it on him like djwager said but you could ask him to the movies just as friends...if he says yes then take that time to learn more about each other...and if he insists on paying don't argue.

ok from a guys point of view...(this may sound really mean but its just how I feel)...when a girl forces herself on me I don't really like her that much...its just when I have to work harder and finally get what I want it makes me happier (I dont know why)... usually if I like a girl ill try to talk to her more or try to look for her, but sometimes I try to see if she will look for me so I ignore her for a while. There was this one time I liked a girl and she txtd me so much I kinda got annoyed and I just didnt like her anymore (womenofvirtue said it perfectly) ...haha that was a mouthful... any questions?