Gay or not gay

I'm gay but I dated and slept with this boy I really like he was my best friend but now we are not boyfriend and girlfriend any more or even friends he left me for another man and I feel so crushed it was the first man I slept with should I go back to...

being gay and give up guys or should I try more men

I think that whatever you think is right. Actually if you have more fun being gay than go and do that but if you have fun being straight. then be straight. Just make sure you have fun.

Figuring out ones sexuality can take some time. I think that if you had a good experience with a man then maybe you should stay open to other hetero relationships. Lots of people consider themselves bisexual or bicurious. Loving someone and having a wonderful sexlife with them doesn't necessarily need to be determined by what sex they are. I admit that this might be confusing for you but just take it one step at a time. Listen to your inner heart and be honest. Don't be afraid to ask yourself questions and try new things. That way you'll learn more about yourself and what you really need and desire. Hope this helps. Good luck!

do what you feel is best. try some girls and try some guys. be with who you want it may take a while. also don't rule out bisexuality