Why do some men prefer to be gay?

I wonder...why some man prefer to be gay???
disgusting...
can somebody give me the answer?? especially I want to hear the answer from a gay..from their own words...

Being gay or a lesbian isn't disgusting!
People, get out of your houses and go out in the world!
We're in 2007!
Homosexuals are even allowed to get married! Hello! Wake up everyone! Grow the F*ck up!

It's because that they're different from you, that you think they're disgusting?!
Well, sorry, but YOU discust ME!

I have a very good friend that is gay. I have close friends that are bi, or gay, and even one of my ex boyF is bi!
So yes, a guy kisses another guy! Yes, a woman kissing another woman! What's so different than a man and a woman, PLEASE?!

GROW UP, Pal!

Something wrong with their mind.

Btw im NOT gay lol

It is a fact that God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. But every individual has the right of free will and to express themselves as they shall. If an individual decides to become attracted by the same gender, then that is a decision that they have made to live with, we do not have the right to tell an individual who they can and can't be attracted to.

Therefore we should respect each and every individual and aim not to discriminate them regarding their culture, beliefs, religion, sex, age, homosexuality etc.

And NO I'm not gay.

Its not disgusting to be gay... Its their choice.
Its a way of life and its people like you who set back civilized nations who are trying to be accepting of all people
I suggest that you get over your homophobia and grow up
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I am not gay but, I don't believe it is a choice as a lot have said. I don't believe that someone would purposely choose something that is going to make their life more difficult knowing the adversities they are going to face going against the 'norm'. As a parent, I raise sons. I ask my sons if they have girlfriends. I talk about their future wives. I talk about my future grandchildren. I don't ever ask if they have a boyfriend. I never assume they are going to be gay. A person makes a choice to be happy. Happiness is being with someone you love. There are so many against people being gay, even in 2007. Self-proclaimed Christians still preach about homosexuality being a sin. Not all the states allow gay marriages. Yes, there should be acceptance and some should wake up, as it was put. In that acceptance, know that the choice is not whether or to be gay or straight, rather the choice is to be open about sexuality so one can live in peace instead of a life in turmoil trying to be someting they are not.

I am gay . it may seem wrong but just looking at guys makes me want to have oral sex w/ them. It just feels so right. I discussed with my cousn who says hes straight about it and I just want to give him a suck

they dont 'Perfer' to be gay. It's a way that they are born. And it is NOT disgusting. Whats so gross about someone wanting to love someone else?
and to the person who said that it is a 'fact' about adam and eve, no offence but thats not a fact. its an opinion. just something you choose to beleive, just the way that I choose to believe in evolution.
and there is no scientifict fact as to why people have a certain sexual preference its just the way things work. so if your looking for an answer your not ganna get one.
and please open your mind to the idea of other sexual preferences. it would mean a lot to everyone.

Love is love. Why do you worry about who other people are sleeping with? Gay isn't a choice. I'm a bi girl and I didn't choose to be this way.

im sorry but xepher1313...
that is properly incestual and so very very wrong!!!

that is not to say that im against gays because I have some realy good mates who are gayso yeah...

gays dont choose to be that way

THEIR BORN THAT WAY

the same way your born straight is the same way that their born gay

ugh...people need to start raising their kids right...seriously. Does someone being gay personally inflict harm on you? didnt think so...so get over it. Losers...

wow... gay people don't choose to be gay, its how they're born. why would someone choose to be made fun of and discriminated against?

For those wishing to leave the homosexual lifestyle realize there are consequences for their actions, but that forgiveness through Christ is possible.
http://www.loveinaction.org/

Ok...so I guess im the first one here who's going to admit to being gay. I was born gay, much in the same way that you were born ignorant. It couldn't be helped. I wouldn't choose to have to put up with all the socio-conservative bullsh*t that I put up with every day. Me being gay doesn't effect you at all. I feel sorry for people like you that have been brainwashed into believing whatever religion and the government tells you. You've given away the free will that God gave to everyone.

YOU CANNOT CHOOSE TO BE GAY
IF YOU THINK ITS DESTGUSTING GO JUMP OFF A BRIDGE

some of my best friends are gay and bi, and I'm cool with that. I mean its what they want to do and who they want to be with. it's their life so I'ma let them live it the way they want to. I mean before I had gay and bi friends I wondered why anyone would want to be like that. but once I had gay and bi friends it really didn't matter anymore, becuase to me they are cool. and gay guys are really cool, and they are good listeners and great with fashion, lol

you don't choose to be gay, its in your dna, there are genes that make us love a certain sex, for example, a woman who loves women has a gene missing that would of made her love a man, and same with gay guys
with biusexuals, that gene is split in 2.
im a bisexual girl and pround, I have a boyfriend at the moment, but I've had girlfriends in the past, stop being homophobic and leave us alone

Gay Pride!!!

I think you get born gay and it's like never going to leave you haha chimpazes

homosexuals have been shown to have a extra cell or something that makes them gay the insane retarted and f*ck ups!

ITS ALL THE IN THE PERISON ITS A PART OF THEM THAT THAY CANT CHANGE YOU MIGHT NOT NO IT BUT THERES PEOPPLE ALL A ROUND YOU THAT ARE AND SOME TIMES ITS because THAY WERE HURT BY A GIRL REAL BAD FELLING WISE THATS WHAT HAPPEND TO MY FRIEND DAVE

yeh, there can be psycological issuse too, I feel for you're friend dave,

useless_toy you are so totally right I agree 400000% except the choice part it's not a choice per say its well the best I can word it love, attraction, emotion, passion. xepher1313 that last sentence was hilarious sorry but ha I had the same experence. well being born with it maybe but as we divelup we may change on how we look at each other. finish later g2g

Well let me tell you something, you ask a questions that noone can really give you an answer to! I mean there are many theorys, some people thank that your born to be gay, some people just are on turn on to man, it most of the time has nothing to do with woman!

ok. I am gay so your in luck. we dont prefer to be gay. we are gay from our afection for the same gender. like if you have a closer attraction to men. then your straight. if you have a closer atrration to girls , your lesbian. if you like both genders about the same amount. then you are bi and l8r on in life you will find out your true orientation