Friendships problems!! plzz help!

I'm srry I don't want to say out the names.

B1 likes me when we 1st met, but I think of him as a friend. from that day on, he kept following me around in school. I don't like him ever since, because I got pissed off. besides that, I just learned not to like him b/c I know part of his personality, & know that he's not my kind. however, I still have to be polite. b/c of him that I get a chance to be friends with B2(B1's friend). my attitude showed B1 that I don't like him as a girfriend, so months later he said that I gave up & doesn't like me anymore.

B2 & I were just friends at 1st, but then we liked each other. b/c of B1, that we have to date secretly. I don't really care about B1, b/c if B1 is going to be mad us, than he's not my friend anymore. just that B2 is B1's friend, so he doesn't wanted to cause problems. b/c B1 told me that he doesn't like me anymore, B2 & I started to date publicly. when B1 found out that we have special relationships to each other. he started to get all mad, spreading fake dirty things about us. so now, every1 thinks that B2 & I are bad people, & that we have betrayed B1.

for personal reasons, B2 & I broke up, so now we are best friends. however, B2 still couldn't be quiet, he just kept saying bad & dirty stuff about us around the school.

1) once B1 had said he doesn't like me anymore, than there is no reason why he still have to be mad b/c we betrayed him. & even if he still likes me, he still have no bussiness in this, b/c the point is that I don't like him.

2) I don't think that we betray him, b/c we did date secretly to prevent problems.

3) even B1 & B2 are friends(not best), but this is the feeling I'm talking about. B2 & I are friends w/ B1, that doesn't mean we couldn't like each other.

4) to me, B1 just picked on little things, making fun of my height. to me, he's kind of like a..........jerk.

5) B1 likes me, I don't like him. I like his friend B2, & B2 likes me back, & we date. & B1's mad. what kind of friend is that??

6) before B1 found out about this, I had explained to him many times about our relationship is just FRIENDS. he refuses to understand, or just doesn't understand.

b/c of the reason #6, I know that if I ever going to explain about this again, he still not going to understand.

I don't really care about this guy, but I want him to leave my x-boyfriend alone, b/c B2 is now 1 of my best friends. I wanted to ask for some advice on what I should do with B1. if possible, ideas on how to pay back. but mainly just want to know what to do.

thank you

There is nothing you can do about B1. You can't control how other people act or react. He thrives on you being upset about what he's saying. Because he'd rather have even a negative reaction from you than no reaction. So if you want to nip him in the bud--ignore him, act like what he says doesn't matter to you.

And why should it matter? He's spreading lies? Those who really know and love you won't believe them. Those who do--who cares? They were never your friends to begin with.

If you play the 'pay him back game,' then he'll pay you back, you'll pay him back, and it'll escalate and get even more attention than it is now. Cool your jets. Next month someone else will be the topic of everyones discussion.

Blessings and good luck