Friends with benifits

okay im 15 years old and I dont have a boyfriend I have a guy friend thats friends with benifits with me
we have been for 1 year now and the only thing we have done is madeout and I really love him.if I would do anything I would love him to be my first person to have sex with. we both want him to comeover my house when im homealone but my question is should we do first things and makeout more and is it normal I get butteflies when im with him and get nurveouse also should I please him more and he please me plus were both virgins

ummmm well hun you suld do whaqt your heart says if you truely love him then go hard but if you dont doont even go there

If you have a calm and relaxed occasion just go to bed both naked and let things to happen. Of course you should think of protection, but do not force anything. You have enough time to try your wings.

see I disagree. I think that you really are starting to have feelings for him and I think that if all do have sex then you will become very attacted to him but he may see it as ohh well I've done everything with her and lose interest with you. now if this happens then your going to be left hurt while he just moves on. personally I think that you should save sex for a boyfriend kind of relationship.

My opinion on this is that you should make him your boyfriend first and make sure that he feels the same way about you that you feel about him. I am confused as 2 why if you 2 feel this way so much about each other you r still only friends with benefits. Make sure that this is what you want before you do it and if your heart is tellin you thats its rite, follow your heart, thats the only way. I wouldnt just rush into sex tho, do other things at first like hand jobs, blow jobs, and lap dances... you may find out in this waiting time that this kind of "no strings attached" relationship isnt reely want you want 2 have sex in.

I think maybe you are starting to fall for him. But is he falling for you? Maybe, and maybe he just wants to have sex. Looks to me like things are just going to get very awkward afterwards, and you may not even be friends anymore. First, hang out with other guys, to see how you feel around them. Two, if your feelings for him are still strong, keep hanging out with him, but don't have sex. If he really liked you then he would have asked you out, would he not have? It would be the best idea to have sex in a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. Definitely take things slow, because if he likes you a lot, he will too. Go step by step, who cares how long it takes. This is the only thing you can lose and never get back, and the first time you want it to be decent. I REPEAT: ONE STEP AT A TIME. build up to it. make out more. kiss. just hang out and have fun. Don't just focus on the physical stuff. talk about your lives, your future, go to the movies, to the mall, to games, on a walk, hang out! If you want to eventually get serious, make out, maybe give him a handjob, maybe he can eat you out, then a blowjob. EDUCATE YOURSELF. Im out, one last thing though: TAKE YOUR TIME, HANG OUT, EDUCATE YOURSELF!!!